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    I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 months now and trust her more than anything but I can’t help but feel constantly paranoid all the time over the smallest of things varying from texting to her going out with her friends! I over analyse everything and constantly feel as though I have done something wrong when I haven’t. I have mentioned this to her and she assures me that she’s perfectly happy with me but even so I still can’t help but feel paranoid or anxious all the time! What can I do to stop this?
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    I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 months now and trust her more than anything but I can’t help but feel constantly paranoid all the time over the smallest of things varying from texting to her going out with her friends! I over analyse everything and constantly feel as though I have done something wrong when I haven’t. I have mentioned this to her and she assures me that she’s perfectly happy with me but even so I still can’t help but feel paranoid or anxious all the time! What can I do to stop this?
    So you're just insecure. As long as this does not transfer to you being controlling then this will be easier to resolve. Think about this, when you go out with your friends or when you text any female friends, do you think she feels anxious or paranoid? Most likely not.

    You just need to put more faith in her and assume she's doing nothing wrong, all of this is in your head. At 2 months, you really have a long way to go if you feel like this.
 
 
 
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