...you're kidding, right?
look, i can see where you're coming from, but in no way do i agree with it. i don't live with my mother- she's drug-addicted alcoholic and has multiple mental health issues because of this. at a lot of points it feels like she doesn't especially care about me, and there's no way she could afford to buy me a loaf of bread, let alone contribute to uni funds! yeah, she does buy me gifts- nothing expensive, definitely not a couple of hundreds (i wish!) but instead little plastic trinkets or something, and i appreciate the gesture. even through everything, there's no way i wouldn't get her something for her birthday etc, that's just plain rude. she doesn't necessarily deserve it, but she's my mother and i love her; for someone you love, you generally look past the value of gifts- it hardly matters how much you spend, but at least show you care! don't take her for granted