Boyfriend going to a party with people I don’t like?? Watch
My boyfriend’s best friend (let’s name him harry) is having a birthday party in a few months and obviously my boyfriend is invited. My boyfriend goes to a different school, and Harry is inviting all the ‘popular, cool’ group from my school, including my ex (let’s name him Ryan) and two particular girls I can’t stand, because they always got in between me and Ryan and they always wanted us to break up. Obviously more girls are going to be there too, I want my boyfriend to have a nice time and I trust him, he hasn’t done anything to hurt me at all. I just can’t help but feel jealous that he’s going to be surrounded by people that I don’t get along with and he knows that, he doesn’t usually hang around with them anyway but what if he all of a sudden does even after the party? Those two girls who I were talking about sometimes say things about him in front of me to piss me off, which they always used to do about Ryan. They don’t really know my boyfriend, but I have a feeling they’ll start doing it again if they meet at the party. I’m overthinking all this I know, but I’ve never been in this situation. It doesn’t help that they will all be drunk as well but I don’t really know how to deal with this at the moment and I don’t want to bring it up with my boyfriend just in case we start an argument Has anyone else experienced something similar and how did you deal with it?