I usually call or message my boyfriend first, I’m usually the one to find him and sit next to him in sixth form, I’m usually the one to arrange dates etc. I constantly feel like I’m just annoying him. What should I do ?
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Feel like I’m putting all of the eoffort in watch
- Thread Starter
- 07-02-2018 08:08
- 07-02-2018 08:11
Just tell him. Ask him if he is still committed. If he truly loves you, after that conversation, he should start putting in effort. If not, he's just using you.
- 07-02-2018 09:01
Stop calling or messaging him first all the time. Stop organising all your dates. Let him know (in an indirect, positive way) that you expect him to come up with some dates.
If you help him to develop and mature as a person, then you've been a loving girlfriend to him. And even if you break-up you can feel proud of your time together.