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Im not sure i want to be with my boyfriend now but i do in the future watch

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    Ive been in a relationship for 3 years now and I love my boyfriend. But im starting to feel claustrophobic and finally getting confidence in myself to be me and im not sure I want to be in a relationship right now. But i dont want to lose the guy im with now?
    What if i do put things on a break and end up realizing hes not the one?
    Or i do and he is and then ive ****ed it?
    Im just not sure what to do at this moment?!
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    Ive been in a relationship for 3 years now and I love my boyfriend. But im starting to feel claustrophobic and finally getting confidence in myself to be me and im not sure I want to be in a relationship right now. But i dont want to lose the guy im with now?
    What if i do put things on a break and end up realizing hes not the one?
    Or i do and he is and then ive ****ed it?
    Im just not sure what to do at this moment?!
    How old are you both? Hopefully you can communicate and talk about the future. It would be odd just t marry the first person you meet, so perhaps you both need time apart and see how it goes. I think if he was 100% for you then you wouldn't be asking.

    Just talk and he might feel the same.
 
 
 
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