Girl is spreading lies about me saying she cuts herself because of me and I’m making im making all and as i ‘stole’ her bff when she force do her best friend to choose between us and kicked her out from seeing her. the girl wants but to see her ex bff in morning but her ex bff doesn’t come and wants to hang with me. Everyone believes her even old friendship group I fell out with. She’s lied before saying I’ve spreader gossip about someone I didn’t. Please help. Also important note we DO NOT speak to each other but she listens to my conversations with others and voice she opinions to my friends. My ex friends didn’t care what she says about me but do what I say about her. They changed their opinion on her when I fell out with them for other reasons
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