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    My boyfriend want to sleep with me, we have been together for a month.. Is that normal? What should I do?
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    (Original post by LoveLifeAndPie)
    My boyfriend want to sleep with me, we have been together for a month.. Is that normal? What should I do?
    Do whatever you’re comfortable with. Don’t worry about what’s ‘normal’ or what people say you should do. If you don’t want to have sex with him then don’t do it. If you genuinely feel ready and comfortable then go for it - but be safe!
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    Do whatever you’re comfortable with. Don’t worry about what’s ‘normal’ or what people say you should do. If you don’t want to have sex with him then don’t do it. If you genuinely feel ready and comfortable then go for it - but be safe!
    I have known him for years, its the whole growing up together then falling in love, im completely ready but I don't know how much it will change things, or if its to soon.
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    I have known him for years, its the whole growing up together then falling in love, im completely ready but I don't know how much it will change things, or if its to soon.
    The fact that you're asking probably does suggest that it might be too soon for you. There is, as mentioned, no set "rule". It's when both people are ready.
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    I have known him for years, its the whole growing up together then falling in love, im completely ready but I don't know how much it will change things, or if its to soon.
    If you’re completely ready then it’s not too soon! Take time to think but remember, things like virginity are entirely socially constructed. Sex can be really special and meaningful, it can be whatever you make it! Do whatever you think is best, no one else’s opinion can reflect your experience and it shouldn’t matter!
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