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    Every relationship- if you can even call half of them that I’ve ever had anything with a guy starts and begins the same.

    The guy messages me for a while, I make polite and reply etc. They ask to meet up. I agree, mainly to see. You never know. We go on dates etc. I start to see something in the guy that I really like. I start liking them and then as soon as I start liking them back they suddenly get cold and move on.

    I’m not naive, only in one case has it been more than dates. So it’s not like they get what they want and disappear. But I suppose they could disappear cause they’re not getting what they want.

    My bad luck can’t be that severe. The last guy I’ve been seeing told me he was falling in love with me and now he’s gone quiet. It’s not even like I needed a guy to say that. Not one where we’ve only been seeing each other for about 2 months now.

    I’m actually starting to think I do this to myself on purpose somehow now.
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    Every relationship- if you can even call half of them that I’ve ever had anything with a guy starts and begins the same.

    The guy messages me for a while, I make polite and reply etc. They ask to meet up. I agree, mainly to see. You never know. We go on dates etc. I start to see something in the guy that I really like. I start liking them and then as soon as I start liking them back they suddenly get cold and move on.

    I’m not naive, only in one case has it been more than dates. So it’s not like they get what they want and disappear. But I suppose they could disappear cause they’re not getting what they want.

    My bad luck can’t be that severe. The last guy I’ve been seeing told me he was falling in love with me and now he’s gone quiet. It’s not even like I needed a guy to say that. Not one where we’ve only been seeing each other for about 2 months now.

    I’m actually starting to think I do this to myself on purpose somehow now.
    Can't hurt to try asking them to be honest.

    Do you avoid having sex with them?
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    (Original post by SecretCombination)
    Every relationship- if you can even call half of them that I’ve ever had anything with a guy starts and begins the same.

    The guy messages me for a while, I make polite and reply etc. They ask to meet up. I agree, mainly to see. You never know. We go on dates etc. I start to see something in the guy that I really like. I start liking them and then as soon as I start liking them back they suddenly get cold and move on.

    I’m not naive, only in one case has it been more than dates. So it’s not like they get what they want and disappear. But I suppose they could disappear cause they’re not getting what they want.

    My bad luck can’t be that severe. The last guy I’ve been seeing told me he was falling in love with me and now he’s gone quiet. It’s not even like I needed a guy to say that. Not one where we’ve only been seeing each other for about 2 months now.

    I’m actually starting to think I do this to myself on purpose somehow now.
    Maybe you are just meeting the wrong sort of guy and you have been unlucky. At least you havent slept with everyone otherwise you really would feel worse.

    Maybe you could meet them in a different way. Be yourself and if you dont like them and you dont get along then move on. You will click eventually. Is it looks (dont get paranoid) conversation, the fact they know they wont get quick action?

    Be yourself. You know if you are good company or not and if you cant click or have a decent time then they arent for you anyway. Dont let them pressure you and dont pressure yourself. Confidence is very attractive as well as smiling. Be patient.
 
 
 
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