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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm 22, male.
    haven't been to uni.
    don't have a job.
    unemployed for going on 9 months.
    haven't had a close friend, ever.
    haven't had a friend since 17/18 years old.
    never kissed a girl.
    find it so hard to talk to girls.
    obviously a virgin.
    live with my parents.
    poor.
    haven't bought new clothes for about a couple of years.
    miserable.
    dislike family members.
    weak.
    skinny.
    spend most friday nights in bed.
    never done anything on the weekends.
    never had a life.
    ungrateful.
    don't think I'll ever have a gf or friends.
    most of the time, I'm alone.
    I look down upon some people, incredibly I think I'm better than people. or atleast I try to think that.
    I'm a waste of space and waste of life.


    please say I'm trash, because I feel like it.
    This is pretty much all your perspective, and choice to self-hate, thus avoiding failure.

    Understandable.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    great on stating the obvious...
    Thank you.
    Humans have to work to get what they want, they have to learn to tolerate others at the least etc. Learn from other humans. Welcome
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm 22, male.
    haven't been to uni.
    don't have a job.
    unemployed for going on 9 months.
    haven't had a close friend, ever.
    haven't had a friend since 17/18 years old.
    never kissed a girl.
    find it so hard to talk to girls.
    obviously a virgin.
    live with my parents.
    poor.
    haven't bought new clothes for about a couple of years.
    miserable.
    dislike family members.
    weak.
    skinny.
    spend most friday nights in bed.
    never done anything on the weekends.
    never had a life.
    ungrateful.
    don't think I'll ever have a gf or friends.
    most of the time, I'm alone.
    I look down upon some people, incredibly I think I'm better than people. or atleast I try to think that.
    I'm a waste of space and waste of life.


    please say I'm trash, because I feel like it.
    There's plenty of human trash locked up in our criminal justice system, but you aren't trash
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm 22, male.
    haven't been to uni.
    don't have a job.
    unemployed for going on 9 months.
    haven't had a close friend, ever.
    haven't had a friend since 17/18 years old.
    never kissed a girl.
    find it so hard to talk to girls.
    obviously a virgin.
    live with my parents.
    poor.
    haven't bought new clothes for about a couple of years.
    miserable.
    dislike family members.
    weak.
    skinny.
    spend most friday nights in bed.
    never done anything on the weekends.
    never had a life.
    ungrateful.
    don't think I'll ever have a gf or friends.
    most of the time, I'm alone.
    I look down upon some people, incredibly I think I'm better than people. or atleast I try to think that.
    I'm a waste of space and waste of life.


    please say I'm trash, because I feel like it.

    almost all off what u said is sooo me
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    almost all off what u said is sooo me
    bet you're such a boring person
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    bet you're such a boring person
    wanna know how borin iam lol
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    (Original post by Harjot)
    This is pretty much all your perspective, and choice to self-hate, thus avoiding failure.

    Understandable.
    it's... not, it's my perspective of me in that very moment, on a day like today.

    I don't think like that for most of the time.

    or maybe I'm just denying that to make me more comfortable.

    but avoiding failures, yep. that should be my superhero name.

    holy ****...
    (Original post by AngryRedhead)
    There's plenty of human trash locked up in our criminal justice system, but you aren't trash
    you are x
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ugh dude, you're not me, I'm better than you
    Better in what way, as you say in your op you like to think you are better than others but then that means there will be others better than you.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    it's... not, it's my perspective of me in that very moment, on a day like today.

    I don't think like that for most of the time.

    or maybe I'm just denying that to make me more comfortable.

    but avoiding failures, yep. that should be my superhero name.

    holy ****...


    you are x
    I'm not going to call you something that isn't true. However, I do believe you have a lot you can achieve, if you did something constructive with your life and worked towards goals
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm 22, male.
    haven't been to uni.
    don't have a job.
    unemployed for going on 9 months.
    haven't had a close friend, ever.
    haven't had a friend since 17/18 years old.
    never kissed a girl.
    find it so hard to talk to girls.
    obviously a virgin.
    live with my parents.
    poor.
    haven't bought new clothes for about a couple of years.
    miserable.
    dislike family members.
    weak.
    skinny.
    spend most friday nights in bed.
    never done anything on the weekends.
    never had a life.
    ungrateful.
    don't think I'll ever have a gf or friends.
    most of the time, I'm alone.
    I look down upon some people, incredibly I think I'm better than people. or atleast I try to think that.
    I'm a waste of space and waste of life.


    please say I'm trash, because I feel like it.
    So let's go through this one by one...

    You don't have to go to university. If it's not for you, it's not for you and that's okay. I know what it feels like to feel like the outcast. I've only just started one at 22 but you can do a degree whenever so there's no time limit on education.

    You will get one eventually, especially if you're currently looking for one.

    Friends are overrated. They come around and then leave just as quick. It doesn't say anything bad about you.

    You're not the only 22 year old virgin who finds it difficult to talk to girls. It's a skill that you have to work on.

    Many 22 year olds still live with their parents and have little money. Again, says nothing bad about you.

    If you need new clothes, then ask for some money to get some? If not, then is this a big issue to you?

    You're miserable possibly because you're thinking about nothing but the negatives or in fact, statements of your life, collecting them together and feeling like you're not worth anything. Anyone could make themselves feel terrible if they always viewed the negatives which is why focusing on the positives is key!

    Many people dislike their family members. Nothing wrong with you.

    Nothing wrong with being skinny.

    Partying and going out all the time is not suited for everyone. Everyone is different so to expect everyone to behave the same is ridiculous. If it's not your thing, then it helps to learn to accept who you are and that you're not just a replica of society.

    You're 22. You have a life to make and build. A long life that you can turn into something good. Don't admit defeat now, it's way too early. You're not psychic so don't tell yourself you'll never have friends or a girlfriend, otherwise you will start to believe it. Try telling yourself more positive things.

    You're at a low point, that's all. You need support so please speak to someone you know or see a doctor to get some help. But you have the power to change your life around. Sometimes one small change can lead to huge ones with new opportunities and the chance to meet new people.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    bet you're such a boring person
    btw ur a prick people say nice things about u n u talk to others like ****
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    it's... not, it's my perspective of me in that very moment, on a day like today.

    I don't think like that for most of the time.

    or maybe I'm just denying that to make me more comfortable.

    but avoiding failures, yep. that should be my superhero name.

    holy ****...


    you are x
    Who you are is extremely malleable. It's simply a matter of convincing everyone around you that you are who you want to be.

    You're probably running into issues where there's no external reinforcement of who you are, and so you're whoever you've come up with.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    btw ur a prick people say nice things about u n u talk to others like ****
    ty!
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    (Original post by mrterrencelol)
    go do something productive for society, or get lost and remove yourself from earth, why are you still alive? people are far worse than you, i had a rougher time.
    you're an inspiration, ty
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    you're an inspiration, ty
    no problem, alot of people tell me that.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Better in what way, as you say in your op you like to think you are better than others but then that means there will be others better than you.
    it's just insecurity mate, I think I'm superior and inferior at the same time
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    I'm...gonna rewrite my past. keep it close to the truth but create a version I can live with. lie to myself if I gotta.


    and I'm gonna fail more often.

    ty all x
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm...gonna rewrite my past. keep it close to the truth but create a version I can live with. lie to myself if I gotta.


    and I'm gonna fail more often.

    ty all x
    you dont have to do that just tell someone u can talk to how u feel u never know it might help u alot
 
 
 
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