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    Hey, so I’m also a girl and i know that I’m queer and she might be too,
    We’ve been friends for a while (for about 4 1/2 years now actually) and we are in most of our classes together. Ive had on and off crushes on her for about 2 or 3 years now and sometimes they last a super long time; right now i like her again (hence this post), which is a problem.
    I really don’t want to ruin our friendship because she’s the only person in my life that i talk to when everything in my life gets really bad - i tend to be a very closed off person and bottle my feelings up.
    A few weeks ago she told me that she ‘thinks she likes me’ which completely threw me because i never realised she viewed me as anything but a close friend.
    What do i do? I don’t want to compromise our friendship and I’m not sure im ready for a relationship even if i find out that she does like me.
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    (Original post by EqualitySloth)
    Hey, so I’m also a girl and i know that I’m queer and she might be too,
    We’ve been friends for a while (for about 4 1/2 years now actually) and we are in most of our classes together. Ive had on and off crushes on her for about 2 or 3 years now and sometimes they last a super long time; right now i like her again (hence this post), which is a problem.
    I really don’t want to ruin our friendship because she’s the only person in my life that i talk to when everything in my life gets really bad - i tend to be a very closed off person and bottle my feelings up.
    A few weeks ago she told me that she ‘thinks she likes me’ which completely threw me because i never realised she viewed me as anything but a close friend.
    What do i do? I don’t want to compromise our friendship and I’m not sure im ready for a relationship even if i find out that she does like me.
    You can speak to her about what she meant when she said that. If she opens out to you by confessing her feelings then you can do the same to her. However, if you're not ready for a relationship, it's probably best not to pursue things for now.
 
 
 
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