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    (Original post by Durlescu)
    Me an my boyfriend were dating for 1 year and smth.6 months ago he became vegan,because he has seen a video on YouTube.I respect his decision,so I let him do it.Now some days ago,he send me the video,asking me to watch it and I did.He wanted me to change so badly that I make a joke saying I became a vegan,but after I told him straight away that it was a joke.Now he says that I broke his trust,and he trust me to a certain extinct.the extinct is that we should not have kids unless I turn vegan.The thing is I love meet and cheese and I don't want this.but I also love him .I am so sad please help
    he isnt respecting your choice as you can respect his. Imo that will mean you are incompatible in the future. Unfortunately imo it is he who should change. He sit trying to punish , manipulate and pressure you, which is not what you want. Find someone else who respects you.

    I'd miss meat so bad too...
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    If you've accepted his decision to be vegan, he needs to respect your decision to be a meat-eater. If he can't accept it, then I don't think your relationship will work out. Maybe you could compromise, suggest you cut down the levels of animal products you eat to a couple times a week, but you're still eating meat. That's the only thing I can think of to potentially work it out. Ultimately, in a relationship both people need to respect each other. You don't have to like it, but accepting it and respecting it is the right thing to do. If your boyfriend can't do this, then he isn't the one for you.
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