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    (Original post by cat_mac)
    Damn. Is he hassling her in person or is it just on social media? If I were her I would block him on everything, and if he’s hassling irl I guess she has to keep saying no :no:
    yeh she's blocked him on everything , i just feel so bad for her because she is a really nice person and she dosen't deserve this , but i don't wanna do anything to rash on my friend because of our history
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    (Original post by cat_mac)
    Damn. Is he hassling her in person or is it just on social media? If I were her I would block him on everything, and if he’s hassling irl I guess she has to keep saying no :no:
    I'm actually surprised that you've never heard of a situation like this. What with all the stories you tell us. No means try again to him.

    (Original post by Ray_Shadows)
    yeh she's blocked him on everything , i just feel so bad for her because she is a really nice person and she dosen't deserve this , but i don't wanna do anything to rash on my friend because of our history
    Tbh the most you can do is be rude. Tell him how it is that he's being horrible to her. Try to get the girl to not be so nice and tell her that she has to be honest with him.
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    (Original post by AspiringUnderdog)
    Tbh the most you can do is be rude. Tell him how it is that he's being horrible to her. Try to get the girl to not be so nice and tell her that she has to be honest with him.
    Sorry? Where did I say I’ve never heard if a situation like this? :confused:
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    (Original post by AspiringUnderdog)


    Tbh the most you can do is be rude. Tell him how it is that he's being horrible to her. Try to get the girl to not be so nice and tell her that she has to be honest with him.
    yeh that's a good point , i'll do that
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    tell your female friend to tell her boyfriend to drop by

    get him to have a strong "word" with the guy.

    does the bf even know his gf is being harassed? I would think most boyfriends would be willing to step in at this point, and if he's not ...maybe she's better off with a new bf afterall
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    I think as a friend you have to give him a reality check that she's happy with her boyfriend and isn't going to leave him for your friend.
    It sounds like your friend is harassing the poor girl and it's worrying that you've said he's not going to stop. It's time to nip this in the bud before it gets out of hand.
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    tell your female friend to tell her boyfriend to drop by

    get him to have a strong "word" with the guy.

    does the bf even know his gf is being harassed? I would think most boyfriends would be willing to step in at this point, and if he's not ...maybe she's better off with a new bf afterall
    i think he's known , now as of today but idk what he's gonna do to him
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    (Original post by Emzieexx)
    I think as a friend you have to give him a reality check that she's happy with her boyfriend and isn't going to leave him for your friend.
    It sounds like your friend is harassing the poor girl and it's worrying that you've said he's not going to stop. It's time to nip this in the bud before it gets out of hand.
    yeh maybe ur right
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    tell your female friend to tell her boyfriend to drop by

    get him to have a strong "word" with the guy.

    does the bf even know his gf is being harassed? I would think most boyfriends would be willing to step in at this point, and if he's not ...maybe she's better off with a new bf afterall
    (Original post by Ray_Shadows)
    i think he's known , now as of today but idk what he's gonna do to him
    Trust don't let the boyfriend meet the person. It's better that they don't find out who the boyfriend is because they might try to track them down or some messed up ****.

    (Original post by cat_mac)
    Sorry? Where did I say I’ve never heard if a situation like this? :confused:
    Well you seem to be suggesting stuff that I'm pretty sure would be ignored by the desperate person. Sorry if this comes across as rude.
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    (Original post by AspiringUnderdog)
    Trust don't let the boyfriend meet the person. It's better that they don't find out who the boyfriend is because they might try to track them down or some messed up ****.
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    bit too late for that now :/
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    (Original post by Ray_Shadows)
    bit too late for that now :/
    The boyfriend came to see them since the person above told you to?
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    (Original post by AspiringUnderdog)
    The boyfriend came to see them since the person above told you to?
    oh no the bf was told about this earlier today , i think he's trying to get in contact with my friend
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    (Original post by Ray_Shadows)
    oh no the bf was told about this earlier today , i think he's trying to get in contact with my friend
    Try to stop it if you can. I really doubt that it'll help.
    A girl I knew tried to get their brother to tell this guy obsessing over her that she's not interested and to leave her alone. Afterwards the guy was saying stuff about how the brother was the reason that they're not dating and he was saying weird stuff about wanting to kill him.
    He didn't really do anything more than before but I guess it's a scary thing to hear.
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    (Original post by AspiringUnderdog)
    Try to stop it if you can. I really doubt that it'll help.
    A girl I knew tried to get their brother to tell this guy obsessing over her that she's not interested and to leave her alone. Afterwards the guy was saying stuff about how the brother was the reason that they're not dating and he was saying weird stuff about wanting to kill him.
    He didn't really do anything more than before but I guess it's a scary thing to hear.
    i mean , it's not that deep this guy isn't this type of extreme lads that threatens or hurts people


    atleast that's what the girl said
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    (Original post by Ray_Shadows)
    i mean , it's not that deep this guy isn't this type of extreme lads that threatens or hurts people


    atleast that's what the girl said
    Eh I suppose not. It depends on how obsessive he gets. It's just not a great sign that this guy is being rejected and won't stop trying.
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    (Original post by AspiringUnderdog)
    Eh I suppose not. It depends on how obsessive he gets. It's just not a great sign that this guy is being rejected and won't stop trying.
    hmm tbh if my girlfriend (if i had one XD) was getting harassed and some guy was trying to steal her i would be pissed of aswell because it is a snake move

    that's not to say i would try something extreme but i probably have some serious talk with him first and if he does it again then i'll make an example of him
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    (Original post by Ray_Shadows)
    hmm tbh if my girlfriend (if i had one XD) was getting harassed and some guy was trying to steal her i would be pissed of aswell because it is a snake move

    that's not to say i would try something extreme but i probably have some serious talk with him first and if he does it again then i'll make an example of him
    What do you mean by make an example of him?
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    (Original post by AspiringUnderdog)
    What do you mean by make an example of him?
    probably do something to embarrass him in college that will stay with him

    as punishment for harassing my girl

    kind of like what deadpool did to that pizza guy stalker if you ever seen it
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    (Original post by Ray_Shadows)
    probably do something to embarrass him in college that will stay with him

    as punishment for harassing my girl

    kind of like what deadpool did to that pizza guy stalker if you ever seen it
    I've watched deadpool but I've forgotten. I'd guess it was one of the bar scenes but I really can't remember.

    Also, what if that didn't work because they decided that they were so obsessed that it was worth the embarrassment. I guess tbh if it gets too bad, she can tell him to stay away and report or something. It is kind of harassment.
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    (Original post by AspiringUnderdog)
    I've watched deadpool but I've forgotten. I'd guess it was one of the bar scenes but I really can't remember.

    Also, what if that didn't work because they decided that they were so obsessed that it was worth the embarrassment. I guess tbh if it gets too bad, she can tell him to stay away and report or something. It is kind of harassment.
    if he had the balls to carry on then i would either get someone higher to deal with or call the police

    or i would just beat the **** out of him instead
 
 
 
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