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16 years old Muslim, Saudi Gay! I NEED HELP!!! watch
- Thread Starter
- 14-02-2018 22:13
- 14-02-2018 22:14
- 15-02-2018 09:20
(Original post by na2002)
- 03-03-2018 17:18
I totally get what you mean, but I would rather keep it as a secret forever than lose my family. I love them more than anything in my whole life.
I'll try to come out to them this summer after I finish my gcses.
thanx for the reply
like..is your family more western/open? cuz even the most westernised/open-minded Saudi families I know still loathe us. idk ur exact situation so I can't say. but just..don't rush it. ur waay too young. does worse come to worse u won't have a safety net.
is it really that important for u to tell ur family? maybe I've kind of accepted my reality, but u..can still live a decent life (not even gonna say satisfying bc it's actually kind of *****y), without telling them. it's really the best for u and for them.
u want to be able to come out to ur friends right? and u can't bc ur scared someone will rat u out at this school and it'll reach ur parents? then..just, be very careful with who u tell. make more friends outside of school, tell them. go to safe spaces for lgbt+, u know for sure they'll keep ur secret. that's for now.
as you get older, ur goal will be to gain independence. so work hard. study hard. u don't necessarily have to move away (that'd be suspicious anyway), just live under a different roof from ur parents. as a guy, u can do this w/out getting married, really. but if u want even more protection, look into marriage of convenience. what's good about those is ur partner, a closeted les/bi/pan girl that u'd have arranged this w/ and ideally known before, would have ur back. so. yeah.
be safe, 3arfa kl ha4a mra y5awf but if ur careful u'll be okay <3<3 xxx
- Community Assistant
- 03-03-2018 17:21