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    I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and a month ago got in a argument with him for the way he speaks to other girls and he promised he would stop, the other night i found flirtatious messages to other girls and confronted him about them. he says that he hates himself for it and doesn't know why he did it and if i give him another chance he will not let me down again. I love him and dont want to let him go but should i give him another chance?
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    This is a hard one because all you can really do if you don't want to lose him is trust him. Just maybe explain how hurtful it is that he does it. It seems he can't help himself but he needs to think about you and how it makes you feel. He needs to think before he acts. Your really new into the relationship too so please be careful. You don't want to find yourself wanting to constantly check his messages. All you can really do is take his word for it that he wont let you down again. I hope he doesn't. xxx
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    I don't think the relationship is worth the effort. If he is fooling around, I don't think he is serious about you.

    If you loved someone enough you wouldn't be flirting with other people, do not waste your time! you are worth way more! X
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    I agree with hamna98 I believe if he loved you enough he would not be doing that to you.
    What have other girls got that you do not have?

    You deserve better, do not get more attached to him because he will just keep on pulling you by your strings.
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    Nope, stop wasting your time! You have told him, he broke his promise, there are too many other amazing guys out there to get hung up on one who isn’t committed. 6 months may feel like an eternity, but it would be easier now than in 2 years time when you find out he couldn’t just restrict himself to messages and had to go for a bit more and cheat.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and a month ago got in a argument with him for the way he speaks to other girls and he promised he would stop, the other night i found flirtatious messages to other girls and confronted him about them. he says that he hates himself for it and doesn't know why he did it and if i give him another chance he will not let me down again. I love him and dont want to let him go but should i give him another chance?
    Give him another chance, tbh not all guys are faithful to their other half and you can expect him to just be speaking to you and if he feels bad for what he did, then try forgiving him
 
 
 
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