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    I don’t love my boyfriend as much as how I did before. I can’t figure out if I love him differently or love him less? I have a barrier up in this second relationship with him so that I don’t get hurt how I did In the last relationship with him. I don’t trust him when he says that he won’t hurt me again. It’s not that I think he will because why am I in a relationship with him for the second time. But I know he’s capable to hurt me because he did before. I’m just happy I’m not in denial which a lot of people are. I don’t want to share what happened in my last relationship with him as it’s super personal.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I don’t love my boyfriend as much as how I did before. I can’t figure out if I love him differently or love him less? I have a barrier up in this second relationship with him so that I don’t get hurt how I did In the last relationship with him. I don’t trust him when he says that he won’t hurt me again. It’s not that I think he will because why am I in a relationship with him for the second time. But I know he’s capable to hurt me because he did before. I’m just happy I’m not in denial which a lot of people are. I don’t want to share what happened in my last relationship with him as it’s super personal.

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    How long were you guys together before and how long did you spend apart ?
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    These arn't really good feelings too have in a relationship, because of whats happened before it will always be in the back of your mind. You don't want it to eventually drive a wedge between you. I no you don't think it will happen again which it probably won't but its not like you can forget how he has made you feel in the past. If anything it could make your relationship stronger.
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    I have been there hun, tell me about it. My advice is to ditch the man and take care of yourself. Nobody can love you more than you. My abusive ex threatened me when I started showing signs of unhappiness in the relationship, but I told him that I was done. I shocked him, because I was usually timid and didn’t argue, and he was 19 while I was 16. I snapped back, put my foot down and left it while I was still in one piece. So get yo self the hell out of there and take some time to yourself, being single is hella rejuvenating, I’ll tell ya 🙂
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