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    There's this girl I really like and we talk all the time and I really think I'm in love with her. However, we wanted it to stay more between us and something special and I promised her I wouldn't tell anyone but I did tell 2 close friends.

    She's on holiday at the moment on a school trip and she was rooming with a few people and one was using Snapchat and was receiving videos from people in a group chat asking them questions.

    One of my friends was in this group chat and I don't know why they did it but they asked her if she liked me and was talking to me. She apparently was really shy and embarrassed and ignored the question but they kept on being persistent until she just said no and then later on she messaged me just saying she needs a break.

    She denies it anything anybody said but I can tell I've broken a level of trust and I never meant to hurt her so what can I say to fix it? I genuinely do love her so much and don't want to lose her and it's a really difficult situation and I don't want to upset her.

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    Give her space, she probably wanted to take things slow but it didn't help that your friend was being annoying. Did she explicitly tell you not to tell anyone about your relationship?

    Just tell her you only told your closest friend but you didn't expect him to be persistent like that. Only apologise if you did something wrong, if she did tell you not to tell anyone then just be honest about it and say sorry. She may calm down over time.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Give her space, she probably wanted to take things slow but it didn't help that your friend was being annoying. Did she explicitly tell you not to tell anyone about your relationship?

    Just tell her you only told your closest friend but you didn't expect him to be persistent like that. Only apologise if you did something wrong, if she did tell you not to tell anyone then just be honest about it and say sorry. She may calm down over time.
    She said she'd prefer it that way and for her I promised I wouldn't tell anyone and I never meant to hurt her as I do care about her a lot. I do feel as if I I did something wrong as even by telling just one person I broke that level of trust that I promised her and I don't want to lose her which makes it especially hard and space is a good idea but she's literally all I'm able to think about so it's hard
 
 
 
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