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    My friends birthday is Thursday and she is inviting us all to a nightclub to celebrate.

    But I HATE nightclubs and I hate going for nights out.

    They asked me out to a pub last week and I declined saying my uncle was in hospital and I was with him (which is completely true)

    But now I absolutely do not want to go to a nightclub

    What will I do?! How do I get out of this and what do I say to them?!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My friends birthday is Thursday and she is inviting us all to a nightclub to celebrate.

    But I HATE nightclubs and I hate going for nights out.

    They asked me out to a pub last week and I declined saying my uncle was in hospital and I was with him (which is completely true)

    But now I absolutely do not want to go to a nightclub

    What will I do?! How do I get out of this and what do I say to them?!
    I appreciate it's too late for this instance, but personally I'd just be honest with them, and explain you don't like clubbing - any decent friend would be understanding of that, and not force you to do something you're uncomfortable with
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    Just don’t go, if your friends would rather you be miserable in a club than not go then they are pretty crappy friends.
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    Normally I'd say to just go along and try to make the best of it however nightclubs really are all or nothing. You either get drunk n dance.. or sit in the corner hardly able to hear eachother.

    Do yourself a favour and make an excuse. Then meet them for another event elsewhere later.
 
 
 
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