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    Can you become friends with a guy and say to him you just want to be friends and then a few months later say to him you want to be in a relationship.

    My context is I have been dating a girl for three months and two months ago I opened up to her but she wanted to meet up more to decide on the relationship between us. This month she messaged me saying she just wants to be friends. I accepted that but I am just wondering if she would change later down the line as I feel we connect really well.
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    Personally I would try to find someone new if I were you. She probably has some other thing going on and doesn't want to hurt you. I wouldn't if I were you.
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    Honestly? If she has straight up said she just wants to be friends, especially after giving it a go in the first place, I doubt she will change her mind. It sucks truly coming to terms with these things, but I think it's pretty clear if that is what she's said!
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    Who knows. But don't wait around to find out.

    And don't let her know that you're waiting for you two to get back. Because she'll think you're desperate, like a dog when it plays fetch.
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    Possible future. But sounds like she wasn't into you. If she comes back to you then it's a last resort sort of thing.
 
 
 
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