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    So.... I like this guy in my class. I am very introverted and awkward and shy and ugly, but there was this one day where I felt pretty confident. So I gave him 'the eye'... Surprise! It worked! And I was like, "Oh ****...." Because I am awkward and introverted.... So he keeps trying to speak to me, and tries to meet my eye... but I physically can't speak to him, so I avoid/ ignore him like he is the spawn of satan *face palm*. But I'm only like that with him, so I think he is really really confused.... because I have been giving a tonne of mixed messages, because I have never been in this situation before.... I was thinking of adding him on FB? But this has gone on for a couple weeks now, so I think he thinks I don't like him... So by doing this will I just be making it worse? Sending out more mixed messages? I feel like such a horrible person.... Find me a spade please... And a plot of land...
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    So.... I like this guy in my class. I am very introverted and awkward and shy and ugly, but there was this one day where I felt pretty confident. So I gave him 'the eye'... Surprise! It worked! And I was like, "Oh ****...." Because I am awkward and introverted.... So he keeps trying to speak to me, and tries to meet my eye... but I physically can't speak to him, so I avoid/ ignore him like he is the spawn of satan *face palm*. But I'm only like that with him, so I think he is really really confused.... because I have been giving a tonne of mixed messages, because I have never been in this situation before.... I was thinking of adding him on FB? But this has gone on for a couple weeks now, so I think he thinks I don't like him... So by doing this will I just be making it worse? Sending out more mixed messages? I feel like such a horrible person.... Find me a spade please... And a plot of land...
    No, but you could make it easier for yourself,
    Do you want to speak to him? Maybe snapchat or a messenger would be easier? Just tell him you are a bit shy.
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    So.... I like this guy in my class. I am very introverted and awkward and shy and ugly, but there was this one day where I felt pretty confident. So I gave him 'the eye'... Surprise! It worked! And I was like, "Oh ****...." Because I am awkward and introverted.... So he keeps trying to speak to me, and tries to meet my eye... but I physically can't speak to him, so I avoid/ ignore him like he is the spawn of satan *face palm*. But I'm only like that with him, so I think he is really really confused.... because I have been giving a tonne of mixed messages, because I have never been in this situation before.... I was thinking of adding him on FB? But this has gone on for a couple weeks now, so I think he thinks I don't like him... So by doing this will I just be making it worse? Sending out more mixed messages? I feel like such a horrible person.... Find me a spade please... And a plot of land...
    Try making the first move, show your confidence, I think you can do it, dont hold yourself back from something that could mean and make a whole lot of difference x
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    i think maybe u need more practice before walking up to your crush , keep going
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    You already kind of made the initial move, as an introverted person myself I applaud you for being able to actually make eye contact.
    You may as well add him on FB, it will probably help clear up the mixed messages you’re sending
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    definitely not a bad person! you can't help the fact that you are shy, so don't be too hard on yourself if you can't seem to speak to him in person.
    maybe try messaging him at first, so you can get to know each other better, and then, maybe, you might be confident enough to talk to him face-to-face?
    good luck! x
 
 
 
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