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    So I'm a girl and I've never been in any sexual situations with anyone before and I decided that I wanted to have an orgasm. I've gotten turned on by reading books, watching porn, and even just fantasizing. But for some reason now that I actually realized that I want to masturbate nothing turns me one anymore. I don't know what happened, it's like when I didn't think of masturbating I got turned on but now that I do think of masturbating nothing turns me on. Is this normal? Or does anyone know if this is happening for a reason...? Any advice would be great.
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    (Original post by eajan)
    So I'm a girl and I've never been in any sexual situations with anyone before and I decided that I wanted to have an orgasm. I've gotten turned on by reading books, watching porn, and even just fantasizing. But for some reason now that I actually realized that I want to masturbate nothing turns me one anymore. I don't know what happened, it's like when I didn't think of masturbating I got turned on but now that I do think of masturbating nothing turns me on. Is this normal? Or does anyone know if this is happening for a reason...? Any advice would be great.
    I expect it's just the pressure you're putting on yourself. Wait until you're naturally turned on and try then.
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    It can be difficult to be turned on 'on demand' and going 'right, I want to be turned on now, even though I am not really' isn't a good way for it to happen.

    So yes, waiting until you actually are is a good idea. If you have the time and the privacy, you can then see what happens when you try touching yourself. The first few times it may help to focus on - be aware of - what the various touches feel like, and how that changes, rather than expecting an orgasm.
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    Try just setting a time aside where you're completely alone, and just make sure you're relaxed and comfortable. Nobody can suddenly get aroused and orgasm on demand unless you're some kind of pornstar!

    Just take it slow and gradually build up your confidence with your own body.
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    (Original post by XMaramena)
    Nobody can suddenly get aroused and orgasm on demand unless you're some kind of pornstar!
    .. and they fake it.
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    .. and they fake it.
    Meh, I had a few suspect freelance jobs to supplement student budgets when I did my first degree and I certainly saw some eye opening things

    (should just add before thoughts go flying, I was a sound recordist, not an actor!!)
 
 
 
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