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    I'm a shy guy. I have trouble starting conversations, and usually only talk to someone if they approach me. I don't have trouble talking to friends, but when someone I don't know that well says something to me, i usualy respond with a quiet yes or no and a head nod or shake. Is this unattractive/ a turn off?
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    Wouldn’t consider shyness to be an unattractive quality because it depends from the type of person it’s coming from, everyone’s different per-say.

    However, shyness can sometimes come across misleading, occasionally be confused as disinterest as an example.

    Most important thing is just to be yourself, as long as you know you’re a good person with good intentions then it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. Embrace your differences and if you happen to run into the person you had a first shy encounter with again, throw them a smile so they know you were just nervous
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a shy guy. I have trouble starting conversations, and usually only talk to someone if they approach me. I don't have trouble talking to friends, but when someone I don't know that well says something to me, i usualy respond with a quiet yes or no and a head nod or shake. Is this unattractive/ a turn off?
    Different girls like different things. You'll be fine.

    Starting a conversation would just involve a bit of small talk. People like to talk about themselves so if you ask questions such as what they did at the weekend or what plans they have over the weekend then that's a good place to start.
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    As what @UWS said different girls like different things. You'll probably find a girl who finds shy guys cute or something.
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    tbh shy guys can give off that mysterious vibe that people like
    as long as youre good at talking once they start talking to you, youll be fine !
 
 
 
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