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    Me and my ex-crush. Way out of his league. And he is way out of my league.
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    (Original post by The Night King)
    I don’t think anyone is way out of my league
    Same here buddy. Without being a big-head, I'm a good-looking lad, good job, financially stable, socially apt. Suppose the only thing to be considered is that I come from a working class family and live in a working class area, but even then it's the norm for posh girls to date working class boys in this day and age.
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    (Original post by TheAlchemistress)
    Me and my ex-crush. Way out of his league. And he is way out of my league.


    this doesn't make sense

    you both can't be punching....
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    I don't believe in 'leagues'.
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    all depends, if you are getting along fine, fantastic and yes and I don’t see why your own negativity and poor self image should damage a potentially great relationship. However, if they really are above then there are more risks and it’s about if you would really take them risks and balancing them out. Best of luck xD
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    (Original post by winterscoming)
    Ugh. My ex-girlfriend once told me that she wouldn't want to date someone really attractive because she'd be worried about all the attention from other girls...

    It took me a few moments to think about it, then I realised she'd basically just called me ugly :/
    Lmaooo it does kinda suck when you put it like that!

    I’d not date anyone i’m not attracted to, but that does tend to be different from the ‘conventionally attractive’ guys anyway.

    But i’d not appreciate the “but you’re attractive to me!” comment either tbh. I’d want someone I date to think i’m The Sh*t™️. Maybe why i’m single :giggle:
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    this doesn't make sense

    you both can't be punching....
    He can walk into a crowd and have several girls flirting with him and all that because he is good looking and all that.

    But no girl can commit to him because he gets to many girls attention, and that’s when I come in because despite him getting close to other girls and flirting with other girls. The only girl still liking him was me, even when he was sick and hurt himself I cared and cared for him.
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    (Original post by winterscoming)
    Ugh. My ex-girlfriend once told me that she wouldn't want to date someone really attractive because she'd be worried about all the attention from other girls...

    It took me a few moments to think about it, then I realised she'd basically just called me ugly :/
    Well she’s with you so you’re good man, consider yourself lucky though, I dated a girl like that and she thought I was the really attractive one. She was way too jealous and paranoid. Told me countless times how she has to fend off all the girls away from me...Bit possessive init
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    (Original post by winterscoming)
    Ugh. My ex-girlfriend once told me that she wouldn't want to date someone really attractive because she'd be worried about all the attention from other girls...

    It took me a few moments to think about it, then I realised she'd basically just called me ugly :/

    heard a story once about an unattractive guy on pof. Out of the blue some hottie started messaging him, he thought it was a fake profile at first but continued to speak to her. Anyways she turned out to be real, and they started a relationship together.

    The guys friends/family and even strangers always commented how much better looking the girl was than him etc .....and after a while it started to get to him. So one day when his gf was drunk he started quizing her about why she is with him. In a drunken state the gf revealed she had been cheated on a by a really good looking guy before and didn't want it to happen again so she picked a guy who "wouldn't be able to cheat" as she put it.

    You can see the implications of that statement right there.
    The guy took this badly and even though he didn't let on he was upset, he really regretted asking her and was considering whether to end things.

    His gf basically deliberately seeked out an ugly guy so he would be unable to cheat on her due to his lack of appeal to other women.
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    heard a story once about an unattractive guy on pof. Out of the blue some hottie started messaging him, he thought it was a fake profile at first but continued to speak to her. Anyways she turned out to be real, and they started a relationship together.

    The guys friends/family and even strangers always commented how much better looking the girl was than him etc .....and after a while it started to get him. So one day when his gf was drunk he started quizing her about why she is with him. In a drunken state the gf revealed she had been cheated on a by a really good looking guy before and didn't want it to happen again so she picked a guy who "wouldn't be able to cheat" as she put it.

    You can see the implications of that statement right there.
    The guy took this badly and even though he didn't let on he was upset, he really regretted asking her and was considering whether to end things.

    His gf basically deliberately seeked out an ugly guy so he would be unable to cheat on her due to his lack of appeal to other women.
    Damn...Reading this made me feel bad for the fella.
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    (Original post by The Night King)
    Well she’s with you so you’re good man, consider yourself lucky though, I dated a girl like that and she thought I was the really attractive one. She was way too jealous and paranoid. Told me countless times how she has to fend off all the girls away from me...Bit possessive init
    Not going to lie but if I had a BF I would do that. I wouldn’t let any girl look at him. 😅
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Would you have a relationship with a person you thought was much better-looking than you (if you thought they were really nice) and maybe generally had more going for them? Or would you prefer someone more on your level?
    Well if I got along with them sure I see no issue.
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    (Original post by The Night King)
    Damn...Reading this made me feel bad for the fella.


    yeah, kinda Savage..

    From what I heard the guy was pretty cut up about it..
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    Yes, I have no problem whatsoever in forming romantic relationships with women that are much more physically attractive than me.

    Surface beauty is great. But it's not enough. Inner beauty counts for a lot.
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    (Original post by cat_mac)
    Lmaooo it does kinda suck when you put it like that!

    I’d not date anyone i’m not attracted to, but that does tend to be different from the ‘conventionally attractive’ guys anyway.

    But i’d not appreciate the “but you’re attractive to me!” comment either tbh. I’d want someone I date to think i’m The Sh*t™️. Maybe why i’m single :giggle:
    Haha, that's not far from what she said afterwards, she actually made it worse with the next bit

    Her: "No I didn't mean that, you're fine, but... I just meant I wouldn't date some Johnny Depp lookalike who gets loads of girls after him"

    Me: "WTF, now I'm less attractive than Johnny Depp...?! :unimpressed: "

    TBF, I already knew she had a huge crush on Johnny Depp, and I've always known I'm not the hottest guy in the world, I might have over-reacted just a little :rolleyes:

    I guess it's one thing to know that about yourself, and another to hear it from someone who is supposed to be your girlfriend. :P
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    (Original post by The Night King)
    Well she’s with you so you’re good man, consider yourself lucky though, I dated a girl like that and she thought I was the really attractive one. She was way too jealous and paranoid. Told me countless times how she has to fend off all the girls away from me...Bit possessive init
    Been there.

    Then that changed when we finished - 'I can do much better than you'.

    Yeah, go ed then. :laugh:
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    (Original post by gjd800)
    Been there.

    Then that changed when we finished - 'I can do much better than you'.

    Yeah, go ed then. :laugh:
    How salty of her:rofl:
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    (Original post by The Night King)
    How salty of her:rofl:
    Aye well, we all get *****y in a breakup I suppose! I try not to but sometimes you just say awful things.
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    Nope. Id personally feel **** cause id feel they'd cheat on me ngl cause why would they be going out with me if they're out of my league. But going out with someone fit would be good cause itd be like i must be good looking if i can pull a person like that just me?? ok.
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    (Original post by gjd800)
    Aye well, we all get *****y in a breakup I suppose! I try not to but sometimes you just say awful things.
    Tbh I’ve never been like that after a break up, but I can understand why sometimes people do it.

    On a side note, been kind of a d*** because I dated this girl then when we broke up & I then dated her best friend. Needless to say, they fell out cause of this and when me and this other girl broke up they were best friends all the sudden again and had a hate club going on for me:laugh: They fell out again though, and the first ex send me a crazy rant the other ex had about me...Pretty messed up
 
 
 
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