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Have a massive problem with how I look watch

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    Every time I look at myself I feel so gross and ugly I see how uneven everything is and how big my nose is and how small my lips are
    Then I look at my body and feel fat and frumpy and just so disgusting.
    I see how other girls are blonde have shiny hair and amazing skin and makeup and amazing clothes and in brown haired freckles and no money for nice things makes em feel so inferior to anyone
    If someone even looks at my funny I’ll replay it in my head for days on end and cry about it
    I do suffer from anxiety and I have a very low self esteem I haven’t been diagnosed with depression but I seriously think I have it reasons why;
    I’m always demotivated
    Always feel very low and ugly
    I cry almost every day about small things
    Constantly compare myself to other people
    I used to self half very often and think about killing my self just to end everyone’s misery and my own I probably wouldn’t. Ever have the guts to do it but it crosses my mind daily like when I’m near a road or a bridge
    I want to be alone, not around my family st all I feel cringe and weird around anyone what’s wrong with me
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    Looks are not everything. Work on building your confidence, read books, go to talks. Find something that you like, a hobby or an activity and just try to look neat and presentable. I used to get told I was very pretty when I was at university and I was one of the most miserable people at the time (cheating boyfriend, mum’s health problems, parents divorcing, etc) looks have nothing to do with happiness. Just focus on your inner beauty, make yourself happy, find what you love and do it and the rest will fall into place
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