Another Asian dude with an inferiority complex....... Here's the raw truth. ALL men of ALL races get **** on by the opposite sex at one point or another. You are making the mistake of attributing your feelings of inferiority with your racial background as opposed to your behavior, charisma, or how the other person was feeling that day. Pick up your game and improve yourself. Being confident in itself boosts your attractiveness bigly, and from your post it doesn't look like you are very confident. Women can smell it from a mile away.