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    alright, all these people told you what to do but do keep in mind that your girlfriend really needs you at the moment, so if you act/stay distant from her (which is understandable because she has flu) she will be VERY UPSET because it seems like a crucial time and she needs you; so before everything just tell her this- "baby, I'm sorry if I seem kinda distant (physically) but I don't wanna get the flu because if I do then I will have to stay away from you for longer time or else you will get it again" and then you can probably just say- so lets work this out together or something.
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    Basically my girlfriend is really upset (Because of things not related to her illness) and desperately wants me to go over to spend time with her, she has some kind of cold/flu and I really do not want to get sick but I also really want to see her. If I choose to go, are there things I can do to limit any chances of contracting her illness?
    If she's upset you should want to see her no question. That being said, eat a lot of oranges.
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    alright, all these people told you what to do but do keep in mind that your girlfriend really needs you at the moment, so if you act/stay distant from her (which is understandable because she has flu) she will be VERY UPSET because it seems like a crucial time and she needs you; so before everything just tell her this- "baby, I'm sorry if I seem kinda distant (physically) but I don't wanna get the flu because if I do then I will have to stay away from you for longer time or else you will get it again" and then you can probably just say- so lets work this out together or something.
    If I was ill with the flu I would not be upset if my boyfriend didn't want to cuddle me and be near me. I wouldn't want to give him the flu which is really serious and can put you out of action for a long time. If you get upset over someone not wanting to get sick then you need to look at yourself.
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    The flu is actually killin people so I pray ur girlfriend gets better soon but I think if u do go wear a mask over ur nose and mouth and if you don't want to go then don't I've been sick for over 2weeks the best thing is to use caution
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    omg it's only a cold get over it doesn't she mean anything to You? get off your high horse mate
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    (Original post by DrawTheLine)
    If I was ill with the flu I would not be upset if my boyfriend didn't want to cuddle me and be near me. I wouldn't want to give him the flu which is really serious and can put you out of action for a long time. If you get upset over someone not wanting to get sick then you need to look at yourself.
    Yes, I definitely agree with you but I said it just in case, I feel like she will feel better if she is reassured because you never know what kind of situation she might be going through so she might not really get it if he wants be distant. You never know, so I guess it's better to be prepared, I mean what's the loss- if anything she will be happier.
 
 
 
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