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    How can I talk to girls online because I am an introvert person who doesn't go outside much and I am really not social
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    Just be yourself. You get the comfort of hiding behind a screen online, so it isn't hard at all.
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    It's not rocket science
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    The obvious answer is that real life is always better than online, even if you (like me) are an introvert: the more you try and fail, the easier it gets as well.
    Like real life as well, it's all about keeping the conversation engaging and open. Find (or ask for) topics you have in common: almost everyone loves to talk about themselves, so let them do and engage yourself. It is exciting to meet new people and learn about them: you will find people have their own perspectives, ideas, hopes and aspirations; ask them about theirs, allow yours to come through, question them. Surely you will have some things that you can relate to: books, music, films, travelling, experiences...

    On the long term, you might slowly develop your inside jokes and so on, then it will be easy to keep it going: make sure it doesn't stay at that, and try to introduce eventually the idea of meeting irl.
    Of course, talking to people online shouldn't just be about picking up dates (again, this is best done in a club), but also about engaging with others, I suppose.
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    but every girl dries out after few minutes I talk to them on FB, SC etc
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    This is normal.

    Keep sticking at it.

    You'll find someone who's engaging to talk to and they'll help you to come out of your shell...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How can I talk to girls online because I am an introvert person who doesn't go outside much and I am really not social
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    but every girl dries out after few minutes I talk to them on FB, SC etc


    Then start going outside and getting some vitamin D

    and start talking to girls outside too.
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    I live in Pakistan. Getting girls here is more difficult than the UK for obvious reasons. Can't wait to move to the UK for university
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I live in Pakistan. Getting girls here is more difficult than the UK for obvious reasons. Can't wait to move to the UK for university
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    If I'm honest I'd avoid doing a lot of talking online. It's easier to be witty and talkative behind a screen but when when you have to eventually meet up face to face, things will probably feel quite awkward. It's fine if you talk for a few days and then meet but anything longer and it can start to be a problem. Tinder is a good way to work on your chat and meet a lot of new people at once. Back in the day I used to go on omegle (dunno if that's still around) and have conversations with randomers. It would never lead to anything but it was good practice.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How can I talk to girls online because I am an introvert person who doesn't go outside much and I am really not social
    Talking to girls online is much harder than real life tbh, atleast in my experience.

    I recommend this Youtube channel, they will give you great advice. Remember everything in life comes through practice and effort

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6I...YE-MOjnq5NPgqw

    Think about body language,eye contact, and expressing yourself. That will optimize your conversations with girls, to approach just put yourself out of your comfort zone.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I live in Pakistan. Getting girls here is more difficult than the UK for obvious reasons. Can't wait to move to the UK for university
    Just focus on your exams then, you have the rest of your life to talk to girls
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    If I'm honest I'd avoid doing a lot of talking online. It's easier to be witty and talkative behind a screen but when when you have to eventually meet up face to face, things will probably feel quite awkward. It's fine if you talk for a few days and then meet but anything longer and it can start to be a problem. Tinder is a good way to work on your chat and meet a lot of new people at once. Back in the day I used to go on omegle (dunno if that's still around) and have conversations with randomers. It would never lead to anything but it was good practice.
    I used Omegle for a long time until it got banned here but the problem was that most of the times you would see men masturbating there and when you add tags most of the girls are very young
 
 
 
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