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    I met this girl whilst away and she doesn't seem to want to come to see me for dinner. I told her to come to me and I'll take her out. She said sure, but asked where it was. She said yes and for sure.

    But then told me to let her know when I am down her way? Does she not want dinner and would rather do it again? (I've already kissed and slept with her)

    How do I approach this, as we chat almost every day and I am thinking of just asking when she's free and I'll come down to her?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I met this girl whilst away and she doesn't seem to want to come to see me for dinner. I told her to come to me and I'll take her out. She said sure, but asked where it was. She said yes and for sure.

    But then told me to let her know when I am down her way? Does she not want dinner and would rather do it again? (I've already kissed and slept with her)

    How do I approach this, as we chat almost every day and I am thinking of just asking when she's free and I'll come down to her?
    Best to just ask openly if she wants to see you or was it just a more casual thing? Then if she does then if you’re happy to go to see her then go for it. Best to be open so you know where you stand and not playing guessing games
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    (Original post by BurstingBubbles)
    Best to just ask openly if she wants to see you or was it just a more casual thing? Then if she does then if you’re happy to go to see her then go for it. Best to be open so you know where you stand and not playing guessing games
    I am wondering if she's playing hard to get or just plain not interested? So we are chatting, she's sending equal amount of messages back. I.e we got like 4 sort of convos going on and she replies with 4-5 lines. But when I asked her when she's free, she said she's busy but she'll let me know.

    I've heard of this trap before? I am just backing off about meeting up and just chatting away. Is she trying to judge my intentions? I am curious as I've already told her when in person. "I don't want to be that guy".
 
 
 
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