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Should I hookup to get experience or should I wait for a relationship? watch

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    My friend got the attention (I suppose) of his current gf partially because of his previous experience with girls. It got me thinking: should I try to hookup with girls to get experience, to learn what girls like and don't, to mess up during sex with someone who isn't potentially a life partner instead of messing up my first time with someone who could potentially date me?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My friend got the attention (I suppose) of his current gf partially because of his previous experience with girls. It got me thinking: should I try to hookup with girls to get experience, to learn what girls like and don't, to mess up during sex with someone who isn't potentially a life partner instead of messing up my first time with someone who could potentially date me?
    Honestly mate if a girl is only paying attention to you bc you're shagging other girls might to be the person you want
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    I don’t know about other girls but I wouldn’t go for a guy (just) because he’s got experience.
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    I think guys who have 'experience' are more open to being labeled as guys who don't want a long-term relationship. I'm a girl and in the same boat, I don't want my lack of experience to put somebody off but I think it'd be better to wait to find somebody. A hook-up isn't going to teach you much because they probably won't give you the patience or help in figuring it out, a partner would and you'd probably feel a hella load more comfortable.
 
 
 
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