Turn on thread page Beta

Girlfriend not giving effort in communicating over text watch

    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    I have been with my girlfriend for a year now. we both have jobs and we only get to meet twice a week because of this.

    i always ask her how her day was, how she is feeling and what she's up to. she always gives me bland replies like "it was good" , i'm ok or "nothing much". she never asks me how my day was or asks me what i'm up to. I don't know why she's being like this and it really gets me upset because i feel she doesnt care about me. we don't even meet that often so texting is important to me

    i don't expect her to constantly give me twitter updates on her life but it would be nice for her to tell me more information so we can have a proper conversation.

    I don't know how to tell her that her texting is letting me down. can anyone help me?
    Offline

    10
    ReputationRep:
    have you asked her to go into more detail about something? Even narrowing down your question to "what did you do this morning?" gives her a better idea of what to talk about, and if she says not much, you can talk about your morning, to give her an idea of what you might want to hear about.
    Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    (Original post by Miaowth)
    have you asked her to go into more detail about something? Even narrowing down your question to "what did you do this morning?" gives her a better idea of what to talk about, and if she says not much, you can talk about your morning, to give her an idea of what you might want to hear about.
    yeah i understand but i always need to put in so much effort to start a conversation. its always me who has to ask what they're doing or i might share a funny story but that's it really, they dont really seem that interested and the conversation ends after a few minutes
    Offline

    10
    ReputationRep:
    have you tried voice chat instead of texting? I know I open up a bit better over voice than text. Something like discord could work as you can idle in an open chat for voice as well as text without losing any phone/computer functionality
    Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
    Offline

    20
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have been with my girlfriend for a year now. we both have jobs and we only get to meet twice a week because of this.

    i always ask her how her day was, how she is feeling and what she's up to. she always gives me bland replies like "it was good" , i'm ok or "nothing much". she never asks me how my day was or asks me what i'm up to. I don't know why she's being like this and it really gets me upset because i feel she doesnt care about me. we don't even meet that often so texting is important to me

    i don't expect her to constantly give me twitter updates on her life but it would be nice for her to tell me more information so we can have a proper conversation.

    I don't know how to tell her that her texting is letting me down. can anyone help me?
    Stop being such a millennial and call the woman. Using a phone.
    Offline

    19
    ReputationRep:
    Just go see her or at least give her a call. Actions speak louder than words.
    Offline

    9
    ReputationRep:
    OK, so you're seeing her twice a week. How often does she orgasm when you're together? When was the last time you made her come?
 
 
 
Reply
Submit reply
Turn on thread page Beta
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: February 19, 2018
The home of Results and Clearing

2,595

people online now

1,567,000

students helped last year
Poll
How are you feeling about GCSE results day?

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Write a reply...
Reply
Hide
Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.