Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free
Turn on thread page Beta

fell for someone over the internet, never gonna happen so how do i make it stop? watch

    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    12
    ReputationRep:
    I know it sounds ridiculous and I'm not the kind of person this happens to so it caught me completely off-guard and I have no idea what to do. we'd been friends for a while through a common interest but at some point a few months ago we got closer to the point we talk in some way nearly everyday. I realised (to my horror) that my feelings were a lot more intense than friendship at some point down the line and had probably been for a while. I won't go into the gross feelings of the thing but I care about her more than any in real life crush I've ever had and I'm not some sad sack that stays at home on the computer all day, I travel and have an active social life, a job and I'm otherwise content but honestly most days talking to her is the best part of my day. it's been months and I can't stop thinking about her. it's never going to happen as she's in a really happy long term rs (ironically with someone else she met online) but I keep imagining and deluding myself otherwise and then going through heartbreak every time reality hits me. I really don't know what to do. I just want to stay friends but have these feelings go away but I've been trying for ages and it's not working. I value her friendship so much but I can't keep suffering like this. Will it get better? or should I cut ties? nothing this dumb has ever happened to me so I'm honestly at a complete loss
    Offline

    19
    ReputationRep:
    Why is it never going to happen?
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    12
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by euphrosyne)
    Why is it never going to happen?
    Because they're already in love with someone else
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    Probably just cut ties,
    Offline

    21
    cut ties
    Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
 
 
 
Reply
Submit reply
Turn on thread page Beta
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: February 18, 2018
Poll
“Yanny” or “Laurel”

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Write a reply...
Reply
Hide
Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.