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    Ok..here is my situation. I have been getting close to this guy at work. Yesterday we were having a regular conversation and i told him that there's a guy at work that has been hitting on me. I started telling him details (I prob. Shouldn't have) but I did. So he flipped out saying that's not right, him actings way towards you is first stages of stalking, I am his boss I need to make it right I am gonna get rid of him. I said omg he's just hitting on me. I can take care of it I'll tell him I am not interrsted. He goes NO this is wrong...now I got upset and said I don't want to be the reason why this guy loses his job don't do that etc..he said we will talk about this at work..so now I've been texting him and he is very short with me..what do I Do? What do you guys think he will do? Do you think he has feelings for me or just being a boss and doing the right thing like he said?
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    Ok..here is my situation. I have been getting close to this guy at work. Yesterday we were having a regular conversation and i told him that there's a guy at work that has been hitting on me. I started telling him details (I prob. Shouldn't have) but I did. So he flipped out saying that's not right, him actings way towards you is first stages of stalking, I am his boss I need to make it right I am gonna get rid of him. I said omg he's just hitting on me. I can take care of it I'll tell him I am not interrsted. He goes NO this is wrong...now I got upset and said I don't want to be the reason why this guy loses his job don't do that etc..he said we will talk about this at work..so now I've been texting him and he is very short with me..what do I Do? What do you guys think he will do? Do you think he has feelings for me or just being a boss and doing the right thing like he said?
    It's true that colleagues dating each other can be unprofessional and is generally frowned upon but I think your manager is overreacting by saying he's going to get rid of him just like that. If you were being frank about him only hitting on you, by that I mean light flirting or harmless teasing outside of the office then I personally don't see it causing an issue for your work. It's hard to say what will happen at this stage or whether he has feelings for you (he would be a hypocrite if that were the case).
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    There is some information missing here. I think it depends on what the guy that is hitting on you is doing. Chatting you up is one thing....following you etc. (he mentioned stalking) is another. Probably need more information to be more helpful here.
 
 
 
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