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Break up with my boyfriend for new guy? watch

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    I’ve been in a secret long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a year now. I’m 17 and indian living in England, he’s 19 and Filipino and living in wales. We truly do care about each other and have made good memories together, a lot of people say our relationship is very mature. But lately...I’ve been having second thoughts. Every time I think about him or say something about him there’s always a “but...”. Idk if we’re that aligned anymore.
    But recently I’ve become very close to one of my friends and I think I enjoy his company more than my boyfriends. He’s nepalese so our culture is basically the same, so in the future we won’t have many differences and my parents would be more open to accepting us. And idk I spent one day with him and it was just so great, I couldn’t stop thinking about him after. I feel like I should get to know him on a deeper level before breaking up and committing myself.
    But I’m just so confused because my boyfriend is so sensitive, anything makes him jealous, he gets suicidal easily, and I feel like breaking up with him would leave a bad effect. Then with my friend, he’s quite talkative where I’m slightly more introverted but I feel that works well where we both almost “compliment” each other. Where me and my boyfriend are both quiet so it gets a bit :///

    You're not compatible, so yes, you should break up. If he's sensitive he'll just have to get over it. You know it won't last so the longer you leave it, the harder it'll be on both of you.

    Right, beat and delete idk
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