Okaaay so I am too confused as to whether I'm totally exaggerating or not.
So, recently I found out that my boyfriend has a secret/fake Instagram profile. How I found out is of no significance. However, he denied it when I confronted him and I told myself to forget it because after all I couldn't prove it. His behaviour towards me hasn't changed (he's actually much sweeter)
I really don't know why he has the need to follow these girls from a fake profile. The worst part of this - AND DO NOT CALL ME JEALOUS OR INSECURE - is that he is following ordinary girls from our town and not famous half naked women... I think I would actually be more okay with the latter. Do not (and I repeat) do NOT call me insecure. Because I am not - I just find it so disgusting.
I confronted him and as I said before he obviously denied it. He kept telling me "why would I do it and why would I keep it on the low. You're the one I love" and so on..
Now I found another IG profile that I am sure belongs to him. He is using the second one after I confronted him about the first one. And he is following (more or less) the exact same girls.
Now, My question is; what do I do? Do I tell him? I love him but I am willing to let him go because why would he do that behind my back?
I don't want to be categorised as the crazy girlfriend who spies on him which he probably is going to use against me. How can I avoid this?
I am good enough, should I accept such behaviour?
Am I exaggerating?
Any advice is appreciated but please behave
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- Thread Starter
- 19-02-2018 22:05
- 19-02-2018 22:14
I think u should be sure enough.. I dont think u r exaggerating bcoz this whole things sounds really strange.. But if u think this guy has been honest with u for long and him not following those "badgirls" typo behind ur back then I think it should be fine.
I feel u are over thinking about it that it makes u feel like he made that new IG profile to prove u wrong and stuff but I dont think so, Anyways u shouldnt break up or anything bcoz of this.. He is not sexting or chatting with some hoes.
And COMMUNICATE. dont come off rude or angry but tell him that u dont feel good about what is going on his Insta stuffs and that want to hear from him about it.
- 19-02-2018 22:14
I think you're exaggerating a bit. Just speak to him and see why he did what he did. If he's lying, prove him wrong and see what he says.