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    I hooked up with a guy from tinder twice times. After the first time, we still talked. I went for a movie with another guy and he texted me that he saw me. I don't know if he's mad or not, but he shouldn't because we are not together. Then, one of my friend played dirty trick by sent his brother a message that I want to sleep with him. A guy I hooked up with was mad (I'm pretty sure he did) I said sorry and we're make up. The second time we met, everything went well. I spent time with him till 1 pm. When we were together, he always checked my phone ; photos, Snapchat, WhatsApp, and tinder. After 1 pm, he did something that is very disgusting, he said, "he will go outside for 2 minutes" I waited for him in the room then the staff came in and kicked me out and said, "he's already checked out" I was so confused, angry, blank, sad, and disappointed. I texted him and he said he found another girl and will go for a better hotel (I found out later that he lied). I was so mad but still don't know what did I do wrong and why do I deserve this? I asked him for million times but never got an answer. In the evening, he texted me again, and tried to make things up.

    By the way, he's a big lair.

    What should I do? I wanna talk to him because I deserve to know the real reason he did this.
    Do you think why is he doing this to me ?
    Thanks for reading
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    I think you should just let it go. There is no point in talking to the guy again after he left you there. That's a **** move. Whatever reason he has must of been immature. The way he acted says it all. And I don't think you would want to be with a guy who is immature and petty like that when y'all aren't even dating yet. Move on girl
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    So he abandoned you at a hotel for another girl?

    Just block him. Sorry to hear you were left like that.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I hooked up with a guy from tinder twice times. After the first time, we still talked. I went for a movie with another guy and he texted me that he saw me. I don't know if he's mad or not, but he shouldn't because we are not together. Then, one of my friend played dirty trick by sent his brother a message that I want to sleep with him. A guy I hooked up with was mad (I'm pretty sure he did) I said sorry and we're make up. The second time we met, everything went well. I spent time with him till 1 pm. When we were together, he always checked my phone ; photos, Snapchat, WhatsApp, and tinder. After 1 pm, he did something that is very disgusting, he said, "he will go outside for 2 minutes" I waited for him in the room then the staff came in and kicked me out and said, "he's already checked out" I was so confused, angry, blank, sad, and disappointed. I texted him and he said he found another girl and will go for a better hotel (I found out later that he lied). I was so mad but still don't know what did I do wrong and why do I deserve this? I asked him for million times but never got an answer. In the evening, he texted me again, and tried to make things up.

    By the way, he's a big lair.

    What should I do? I wanna talk to him because I deserve to know the real reason he did this.
    Do you think why is he doing this to me ?
    Thanks for reading
    1. Forget about him. he was the jealous controlling type who exacted what he thought was revenge on you because you went out with someone else, even though you werent dating him.

    2. You should tell your friend how unimpressed you were of the trick they played on you.

    3. Stop wasting effort and get on with your life as he obviously planned it and felt in his own head you had done him wrong. he isnt a nice person just cut all contact.
 
 
 
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