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    ok so I always hear that guys **** by moving their hand up and down their penis but when I do that nothing happens, I don't ***. it just doesn't work for me.


    instead I have to lie on the floor or bed on my stomach and press my fingers against my penis and it gives me a good feeling and then i ***.

    also, I find it hard to get an erection. I do get an erection when I'm talking about sexual stuff with one of my mates but like say I was watching porn, I wouldn't really get an erection. do I need to go to the doctor? will I be able to have sex when I am older??
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    It's not common - as you've said, most men use another method - but there are plenty of men humping the bed / floor / fingers like this.

    Some of the ones using their fist will have problems if they use a particularly 'hard and fast' action, because partner sex doesn't feel much like that... and outside 'dry humping' neither does what you're doing. The good news is that being able to come in more than one way is a useful skill anyway, so see what happens if you switch to another method when you're close to coming. You don't have to use a fist - what happens if you have slippery fingers and touch the head of your penis, for example?

    If that works you can switch earlier and earlier...

    Most porn is crap, so don't worry if it doesn't turn you on.
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    It's not common - as you've said, most men use another method - but there are plenty of men humping the bed / floor / fingers like this.

    Some of the ones using their fist will have problems if they use a particularly 'hard and fast' action, because partner sex doesn't feel much like that... and outside 'dry humping' neither does what you're doing. The good news is that being able to come in more than one way is a useful skill anyway, so see what happens if you switch to another method when you're close to coming. You don't have to use a fist - what happens if you have slippery fingers and touch the head of your penis, for example?

    If that works you can switch earlier and earlier...

    Most porn is crap, so don't worry if it doesn't turn you on.
    Thanks for your response, so is it definitely ok if the fist method doesn't work for me? When i do it using my fingers it only really works if my penis is in between hard and soft so say my penis was hard during sex would I be able to ***? or am I just getting paranoid over nothing?
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    The closest simulation of the physical sensations of partner sex is a Fleshlight. If you can come via using one of them, doing so via partner sex will be easy.
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    If it works for you then you're all good.

    Porn doesn't work for everyone and you can get hard so there are no physical issues for you to worry about.

    Sex with a partner is a whole new sensation and activity. Don't worry about it for now. If you have issues later then that's when you need to see your GP.
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    Omg no way, dude, i have the exact same problem and **** in the same way, thought i was the only person with this, but obviously not
 
 
 
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