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    Yeah he'll forgive you once he struggles to find someone else, just be patient
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    (Original post by Ray_Shadows)
    have some decency and piss of
    sheesh why so salty? bet you'd tell her to be more forgiving if a guy was saying he drunkenly cheated on his girl
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    You're trash, but then again we all are too; show him you care and he may reconsider...
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    He just might if you show that you really are sorry for doing it, but know that he has every right to reject you. If there is no hope, this is a hard lesson for you and relationships. Don’t cheat
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    (Original post by ward47)
    I mean this in the nicest way possible mate but:
    1) thats terrible advice.
    2) suggesting someone pretends they were molested isnt funny.
    3) dont write the N word in your posts - i mean show some class mate.
    1- I totally get it just a bit o banter.
    2- I'm sadistic what can I say.
    3- You know what I'll make an exception for this thread, I'll show proper class lad. Starting with this question what we saying?
    Tetley
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    cause f*ck me we all need a good cuppa every once in a while.
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    (Original post by AspiringAccount)
    1- I totally get it just a bit o banter.
    2- I'm sadistic what can I say.
    3- You know what I'll make an exception for this thread, I'll show proper class lad. Starting with this question what we saying?
    Tetley
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    cause f*ck me we all need a good cuppa every once in a while.
    thanks for taking my comment into consideration plus Yorkshire tea for me mate you got get a proper cuppa
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    (Original post by ward47)
    thanks for taking my comment into consideration plus Yorkshire tea for me mate you got get a proper cuppa
    That's a proper good choice. Nice taste lad.
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    Tough.
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    Sorry only does so much. If he has any sense he won't talk to you again. Him telling you to ''F off'' is exactly what he wants you to do. I've heard a lot of stories of girls cheating on their bf at uni. It's like they don't get the male attention they are used to 24/7 and suddenly can't live without it. I've found a lot of girls when they are young don't spend much time not in some kind of a relationship... so It doesn't overly suprise me when long distance stuff goes pear shaped.
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    Why are people responding as though this actually happened?
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    (Original post by Beth Hurst)
    I made a mistake but who doesnt anyway I cheated on my bf while on a night out at uni recently I got drunk and had sex with some random guy dont even know who he was I was so ashamed but I told my bf because I thought I would be honest but he told me straight up it was over that he could never trust me I keep messaging him begging that I would never do it again but his last message was to tell me to f*** off will he ever forgive me for this?
    You committed an act of disloyalty which makes you an inferior choice of female relative to average.

    Your boyfriend was correct to dump you. Move on and analyse why you committed such an act.
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    The fact that you think you can get him back shows how little respect you had for him in the first place. :laugh::laugh:
    If he goes back to you he is a soy boy.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    sheesh why so salty? bet you'd tell her to be more forgiving if a guy was saying he drunkenly cheated on his girl
    no i actually wouldn't ,i don't stand for cheaters at all (unless they were heavily drugged or something just as serious happened)

    go annoy someone else
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    (Original post by Beth Hurst)
    I made a mistake but who doesnt anyway I cheated on my bf while on a night out at uni recently I got drunk and had sex with some random guy dont even know who he was I was so ashamed but I told my bf because I thought I would be honest but he told me straight up it was over that he could never trust me I keep messaging him begging that I would never do it again but his last message was to tell me to f*** off will he ever forgive me for this?
    I made a mistake this morning. I didn't get my bus card out before it was my turn to pay, so I held up the queue for like 30 seconds. Everyone makes mistakes like that. Not everyone sleeps with other people when they're in a relationship.

    I wouldn't forgive cheating either.
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    I did the same thing. I am 21 and my bf is 22.. I begged him went all the way to meet him in person 14 hours journey.. he accepted my apology but he treats me worst, he replies once in a day and he wouldn’t cal me at all. And guess what I dumped him. If he loves me he wil come back and if he doesn’t thn that’s it. We both gotta move on and get someone better.. so don’t lose hope dear I know how u r feeling rn. Tell him sorry and girl letme tell u once he forgives, u wil feel much better and will be able to move on both of you.. if he treats u bad after forgiving u thn u better move on, u don’t deserve to be treated like that for ur once mistake
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    (Original post by AspiringAccount)
    Nig*a I was trying to be funny (emphasis on 'trying) and to be honest it seemed like it would work in my head. But for the majority I was saying it for banter. Your right her relationship does seem like it's over but hey second chances am i right?
    There was nothing funny about it. You were just short of advising Beth Hurst to lie to her boyfriend that she was raped. And no. You’re not right. The boyfriend is. Ultimately it’s his choice. Rich coming from me but you’re terrible with advice.
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    (Original post by Archurus23)
    There was nothing funny about it. You were just short of advising Beth Hurst to lie to her boyfriend that she was raped. And no. You’re not right. The boyfriend is. Ultimately it’s his choice. Rich coming from me but you’re terrible with advice.
    Yeah no you are right I do suck at giving advice.
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    (Original post by Khaoebs)
    I did the same thing. I am 21 and my bf is 22.. I begged him went all the way to meet him in person 14 hours journey.. he accepted my apology but he treats me worst, he replies once in a day and he wouldn’t cal me at all. And guess what I dumped him. If he loves me he wil come back and if he doesn’t thn that’s it. We both gotta move on and get someone better.. so don’t lose hope dear I know how u r feeling rn. Tell him sorry and girl letme tell u once he forgives, u wil feel much better and will be able to move on both of you.. if he treats u bad after forgiving u thn u better move on, u don’t deserve to be treated like that for ur once mistake
    Get someone better? He deserves someone better than you. He didn’t abuse you or stop you from doing what you wanted from what you’ve said, and it’s understandable that he wouldn’t trust you. So he has to forgive you 100% on your terms or else he’s not good enough for you? You don’t deserve anyone with that attitude. On a side note, I think you made it clear to him that he wasn’t good enough for you when you cheated on him, and made it worse when you proceeded to dump him. He probably would have given you time or probably not, but you ended it on your terms. That’s disgusting. You made the mistake. Whether you should stay or not, (and unless he was forcing you to stay, you don’t have a leg to stand on), you don’t get to masquerade yourself as the moral superior. You should have just cut and run from the get go. Your advice sucks.
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    (Original post by Khaoebs)
    I did the same thing. I am 21 and my bf is 22.. I begged him went all the way to meet him in person 14 hours journey.. he accepted my apology but he treats me worst, he replies once in a day and he wouldn’t cal me at all. And guess what I dumped him. If he loves me he wil come back and if he doesn’t thn that’s it. We both gotta move on and get someone better.. so don’t lose hope dear I know how u r feeling rn. Tell him sorry and girl letme tell u once he forgives, u wil feel much better and will be able to move on both of you.. if he treats u bad after forgiving u thn u better move on, u don’t deserve to be treated like that for ur once mistake
    This is good advice but it's better if they both move on because the healing process will be so much worst.
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    (Original post by beach700)
    This is good advice but it's better if they both move on because the healing process will be so much worst.
    Not really. That “find someone better” part was bullsh*t. Someone being reluctant to forgive you for a mistake you made doesn’t make you better than them.
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