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    So I’ve been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks now pretty casually, we have slept together 5 times and seen each other a lot, we’ve both told each other we like each other but she’s had 2 ex boyfriends and had bad experiences with both.

    She told me she’s very wary about guys and she thinks I’m a player. We went out together on Thursday night and things were fine but since then we’ve only been texting a little bit.

    Seems to have gone cold and I don’t want to chase and seem clingy so I’m not really speaking either.

    Any advice on what to do? Should I leave it and see if she starts talking to me again? I don’t know whether she’s just gone off me or just really keeping her guard up.

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    seeing this girl for about 3 weeks. pretty casually. have slept together 5 times. seen each other a lot. just really keeping her guard up.
    A casual slept together 5 times in three weeks. Leave her to herself. Sounds like a girl who is two faced. Not worth the time to message unless she gets back to you. Don't play your emotions, because she'll do that if you let her. Give it a rest until she asks to see you again.
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    I would wait and see if she comes back to you.
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    Depends on the girl but girls these days dont like a beggy guy for some reason. Stop messaging her maybe shell start messaging you.
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