She is very late to achieve orgasm. Sometimes it is painful for her as well as me.What can be done to speed up her orgasm?
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- Thread Starter
- 21-02-2018 16:43
- Community Assistant
- 21-02-2018 19:52
It would be easier talking to her rather than you. One reason for this is that you don't 'give' people orgasms, rather than attempt to help them with having one. Putting pressure on them to do so - including going 'it's painful for me' - rarely helps.
Has she had orgasms by herself? How long do they take?
Either way, you need to a) accept that in any given session she may not have one and b) listen to and follow what she wants to try. It's very possible to enjoy being sexual with someone without having an orgasm.