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    My boyfriend friend that he has known for about same time as me. He was at her house fixing something for her and she starting having a sezuire. Then went hospital and they told her mum and him and others she might have cancer and they’re doing an operation. He just told me as he said he’s going back to the hospital. He said I should come but I feel as though she don’t know me or her family I don’t want to be somewhere so sensitive and they not want me there?

    I don’t want me not going for him to think I’m being rude.
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    My boyfriend friend that he has known for about same time as me. He was at her house fixing something for her and she starting having a sezuire. Then went hospital and they told her mum and him and others she might have cancer and they’re doing an operation. He just told me as he said he’s going back to the hospital. He said I should come but I feel as though she don’t know me or her family I don’t want to be somewhere so sensitive and they not want me there?

    I don’t want me not going for him to think I’m being rude.
    Talk to bf why and explain. It may be for him and not her.

    I would say dont go if you dont want but on the other hand going once as support is fine. take her something to read etc. They will appreciate you having made an effort and if it feels awkward then just get a coffee or something . The plus side is its over and it wont be an argument with your bf. I'm sure the friend with cancer has bigger issues and concerns to deal with.
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    Tell your boyfriend how you feel. Maybe he could ask her family if it's okay for you to come along.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend friend that he has known for about same time as me. He was at her house fixing something for her and she starting having a sezuire. Then went hospital and they told her mum and him and others she might have cancer and they’re doing an operation. He just told me as he said he’s going back to the hospital. He said I should come but I feel as though she don’t know me or her family I don’t want to be somewhere so sensitive and they not want me there?

    I don’t want me not going for him to think I’m being rude.
    I think you should just be there for your boyfriend. It’s must hurt him a lot to see his friend have a seizure and that she might have cancer. But like 999tigger and DrawTheLine have said, tell him how you feel first
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