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Going soft before sex

I'm 23 years old I'm an virgin I'm currently in a relationship where we have tryed to have sex and just before I'm about to go in. I start to soften up this is the 3rd time this has happened I'm getting little worried as my girlfreind thinks it's her. I think she's perfect in every Way
Any suggestions to get round this with out using viagra
Foreplay for longer, try going on a Romantic date and really get in the mood, if you having trouble keeping it up don’t have sex for the sake of having sex. Make it more intimate.
Don't rush it.

If you have plenty of time together, you can even let your erection go - it will come back, and the knowledge that it will can help it stay. Letting her handle the initial penetration can also help.
Original post by Anonymous
Any suggestions to get round this with out using viagra


Honestly, no.

If you are a virgin, you're very likely suffering from performance anxiety. Sex probably seems like a huge deal to you, you've built it up in your head to be this major thing. When really it's a just a natural, normal, healthy way for adults to express affection, or even just sexual pleasure and stress relief.

I'd suggest you bite the bullet, go see your GP, and (provided you have no medical issues) they should have no problem proscribing a one of script for Sildenafil (the generic). It's exactly the same substance as in Viagra (TM) but a fraction of the price since Pfizer's patent ran out. No-one gets 'Viagra' on the NHS. This is one of the exact reasons of erectile dysfunction that GP's will prescribe for. You need it.

Try and get some combination of a 100mg dose, ie 4x25mg, 2x50mg, or 1x100mg. Plan ahead, can take up to an hour to kick in, longer if you've eaten recently, and only works for around four hrs.

Also, be aware they're not erection pills, nothing will happen unless physically stimulated. I think losing your virginity to someone you are genuinely close to, and having a night of successful, passionate, physical intimacy, will solve any future issues for good.
Hmm, literally billions of men have lost their virginity without erection drugs. This is clearly a mental thing, not a physical one.

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