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    i bumped into this girl who was a friend of my friends in a coffee shop. He introduced me to her and we spoke for a little bit and exchanged numbers. I messaged her 3 days later and asked her out on a date. she said she would have agreed if i asked a few days before because apparently my friend and her do not get on now because of an argument involving a third party (i think a girl that my friend is dating) but she said she is up for it if theres no problem with me talking to her but she is still unsure and she will let me know if she is up for it.

    question..shall i pursue it and ask her 2 days or 3 days later and if so what do i say? because waiting for a response from a woman is one of those things that hardly ever happens -.-

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    Whats with this 2-3 days thing? Its not 1990 everything moves fast nowadays as you can see she felt out with your friend within 3 days. Message her the next day with a joke just to check up on her day and if the topic is brought up ask her straight if she says no move on
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    (Original post by MDesfontaine)
    Whats with this 2-3 days thing? Its not 1990 everything moves fast nowadays as you can see she felt out with your friend within 3 days. Message her the next day with a joke just to check up on her day and if the topic is brought up ask her straight if she says no move on
    no because i thought maybe messaging her again day after of messaging all this is a bit too soon and desperate. giver it a bit of time maybe?
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    Just ask her, then you'll know.
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    idk I'm about 14 years ahead of this ****. We used to text on our Nokia black and white phones when I was 18.
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    (Original post by MDesfontaine)
    Whats with this 2-3 days thing? Its not 1990 everything moves fast nowadays as you can see she felt out with your friend within 3 days. Message her the next day with a joke just to check up on her day and if the topic is brought up ask her straight if she says no move on
    so what can i say for example?
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    If in 3 days she can fall out with someone who she was fine with she can get asked out by 5 different people in that time. Dms, tinder, messenger, snapchat, texting (god forbid linkedin) like honestly you dont need to just ask her about the date, you can ask her about her show her that youre interested in her and not just her as a romantic option. And if you want to cut to the chase just be like "Do you prefer Black panther or dinner?" And or whatever youd like to go for the date be assumptive but not needy aggressive
 
 
 
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