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    okay, so every now and then i come home with a hicky from my bf...my mom keeps calling me a slut and a hore, and she keeps telling me that i keep selling my self out to random people and im going to become a prostitute.....so here's my question...how can i make her understand that i value myself to not actually do that, that i wont sell my body out to random people, and that im not a slut or a hore for having a hicky?

    I have no idea who you are or who your mother is, so I get to say totally unqualified things.

    I reckon that there is no point trying to persuade her. She has made up her mind and will not be argued with. There is no point trying. Just carry on, live your life to the high standard you are setting, which are nowhere near the standards your mother assumes you are living. Whenever she calls you these names, calmly tell her that she is wrong and say no more. Just let her rant. If ever she takes a breath, calmly tell her that she is wrong. Don't get dragged in.
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    Why would she think that if you have a boyfriend?
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    You should ask your boyfriend to be more discreet about where he leaves marks on you. Or cover them up with make-up. A lot of people, especially older, consider it extremely tacky to walk around with them visible. Which is likely why your mother is reacting in that way.
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    It's understandable because it's really tacky to walk around with hickeys. Just don't have visible ones and there won't be a problem.

    get rid of the love bites before she sees you?
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