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    Lately I feel like I’ve been putting all of the effort in with my boyfriend. Yesterday I had a bad day and everything just built up. I messaged him asking him if he wanted to do something at the weekend but he said he had plans. Then I stupidly asked him if I could tag along to the next party he goes to (he goes out a lot) becuase I wanted to get pissed (even though I don’t usually drink). He read it and started typing but I never actually got a reply. I feel like I’ve messed things up by sending this message especially becuase a few hours earlier I told him that I feel like I don’t really see him anymore. I’m scared he thinks that I’m needy and clingy. What should I do ?

    I used to feel like this with my ex and its not healthy AT ALL, its a one sided relationship and I think he enjoys the power he has over you. if I were you id end it, because since I've left that relationship I'm SO much happier and only now have I realised how I should be treated. My now bf treats me right and its crazy how big the difference is, you deserve better and you will get better! it might be hard but its a move in the right direction
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