Only ugly girls approach me in clubs?

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The last couple of times ive been out with my friends, girls have approached me in some way or the other, but they’re always not attractive. They usually grab my arm in the dance area, or they come up to me if they’ve seen me before etc.

So does this mean I’m ugly also if ugly girls approach me? Surely if I was attractive, they’d be intimidated or think they stand no chance
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You are full of yourself
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(Original post by Anonymous)
The last couple of times ive been out with my friends, girls have approached me in some way or the other, but they’re always not attractive. They usually grab my arm in the dance area, or they come up to me if they’ve seen me before etc.

So does this mean I’m ugly also if ugly girls approach me? Surely if I was attractive, they’d be intimidated or think they stand no chance
no it does not mean that, they may not just be attractive for you but another guy may find them hot so it depend on your flavour
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So does this mean I’m ugly also if ugly girls approach me? Surely if I was attractive, they’d be intimidated or think they stand no chance
The fact that you call these girls ugly says something about how ugly you must be on the inside... There are more pleasant ways of referring to them
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Yep. People approach people they think they have a shot with that they fancy. If no “hot girls” go for you, they don’t want you. (Though attractive girls don’t feel a need to approach anyone really, they get enough people approaching them.)

Enjoy the reality check!
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The last couple of times ive been out with my friends, girls have approached me in some way or the other, but they’re always not attractive. They usually grab my arm in the dance area, or they come up to me if they’ve seen me before etc.

So does this mean I’m ugly also if ugly girls approach me? Surely if I was attractive, they’d be intimidated or think they stand no chance


you should be grateful you're even getting approached, a fair amount of guys at clubs don't.......
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The fact that you call these girls ugly says something about how ugly you must be on the inside... There are more pleasant ways of referring to them
you are right bro!
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you should be grateful you're even getting approached, a fair amount of guys at clubs don't.......
Why should I be grateful?
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Ye I MOSTLY get hit on by less attractive girls. It's not that I don't like them as people but it upsets me because it makes me think I'm ugly. They might try telling me I'm so fit and this also upsets me because I think it's because I'm ugly but better than TRULY ugly guys they're probably used to. Sometimes someone fit will approach me... But I can't help but feel that it doesn't happen frequently enough. Especially when pretty average guys are constantly approached and hit on by fit as **** girls all the time.

I'm hoping I don't sound mean but like, everyone wants someone they find at least somewhat physically attractive. Also I literally can't get hard for average girls even with Cialis I swear to god, best I can do is get hard for 5 seconds and go soft inside them, so I don't have a choice but to be very picky. You can't attack me for something I have no control over lmao.

You know though I'll tell you a story, I saw some MEGA good looking **** at the bar around Halloween time. I myself was looking fantastic that night, but looking at him next to me in the mirror I looked terrible. I watched him closely all night to see how many girls would hit on him. Literally not even one did, to me it looked like he didn't even get checked out let alone approached. But he had a kinda dead vibe and kept just looking at himself in the mirror. He was also about 6'5 and pretty jacked. Looked fresh out of TOWIE.

Maybe your vibe is off.
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(Original post by cat_mac)
Yep. People approach people they think they have a shot with that they fancy. If no “hot girls” go for you, they don’t want you. (Though attractive girls don’t feel a need to approach anyone really, they get enough people approaching them.)

Enjoy the reality check!
But surely ugly and hot girls equally find hot guys attractive?
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why don't you man up and approach a girl if you can't deal with all these ugly girls approaching you?
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But surely ugly and hot girls equally find hot guys attractive?
Yes? What’s your point?
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Why should I be grateful?


because some attention is better than zero attention


tbh back in the day on the rare occasion i used to get approached in clubs and 80% of the girls who approached me I was not attracted to...

I noticed though the more that I improved my appearance the better calibre the girls that would come over and also with increased frequency.... so if you're only getting girls you find unattractive coming over perhaps try improving your appearance.......
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Yes? What’s your point?
My point therefore is your original post is a contradiction
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why don't you man up and approach a girl if you can't deal with all these ugly girls approaching you?
Where did u get that I don’t approach girls myself?
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My point therefore is your original post is a contradiction
Lmao how? Attraction and approaching someone are two very different things.
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Well you know what they say - ugly attracts ugly
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(Original post by yungaheartz)
Well you know what they say - ugly attracts ugly
Or maybe I’m too good to resist?
If ugly girls approach ugly guys and hot girls approach hot guys then why are ppl still single
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Lmao how? Attraction and approaching someone are two very different things.
girls approaches or gets drawn into guys that are attractive irrespective of the girls attractiveness. Just so happens ugly girls don’t get approached so they feel they need to work
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They're probably in your league anyway.
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