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    It really depends on the individual because some women will have dreamt about having their own kids for ages... but there are soooo many different options nowadays so you will definitely be completely fine x
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    so just found out that i have to get a surgery which would leave me unable to have kids in the future.

    I want to get a truthful answer from you people, if you would be more likely to avoid a serious relationship with a person who is unable to have kids.

    I am guy btw, i want to know everyone thoughts.

    please be truthful and don't lie to spare my feelings
    Really and truly what people want today or tomorrow is going to be different to what they want in say twenty years so if I were you I wouldn't overthink it. - I know it's easier said than done and also I'm not in your situation.

    Also, there are loads of women who aren't fussed about whether they have children or not and as long as you make her happy then I don't see why it'd be a problem.

    Personally, the only reason I'd avoid a serious relationship with someone is if they lied or weren't straight up with me when we realised we were good for each other.
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