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    I am in my first year at uni and i met my boyfriend here and we fell in love straight away and have been ever since, he is everything i have ever wanted and he's the kind of guy i would want to spend the rest of my life with. But, i've always been a party girl and feel like i'm going to regret not partying away in my uni years and feel i could be wasting these teen years in a relationship?It's like i want to be with him but in 3 years not now, but i don't want to risk loosing him. Help
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    You can still party and be in a relationship.
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    My opinion of course but I think break it off for uni and let it all go. You'll be ready to settle properly after and will have it all out your system after uni! Maybe you will get back together after anyway? Just be mature about it and don't leave each other on a sour note, it's not worth the stress.
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    (Original post by DrawTheLine)
    You can still party and be in a relationship.
    True, but i also miss the one night stands and the filrting, i feel like the worse person in the world for thinking this
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    (Original post by jsam0226)
    My opinion of course but I think break it off for uni and let it all go. You'll be ready to settle properly after and will have it all out your system after uni! Maybe you will get back together after anyway? Just be mature about it and don't leave each other on a sour note, it's not worth the stress.
    Something i forgot to mention, we are on the same course and in the same class so breaking up would be super hard!
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    That could put a spanner in the works. If you feel like this though are you likely to cheat? If so then it'd be better to be honest and break up rather than him find out if you slip up.
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    (Original post by jsam0226)
    That could put a spanner in the works. If you feel like this though are you likely to cheat? If so then it'd be better to be honest and break up rather than him find out if you slip up.
    No, i could never live with myself if i cheated on him! i care about him so much but feel like i'm missing out! ahhhhhh
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    If you were truly in love with your boyfriend non of this other stuff would actually matter, especially feeling like you're missing out on having one night stands! If you do feel tempted to do these other things then maybe you are better off breaking up with your current boyfriend as it isn't fair on him if you do make a
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    Just tell him the truth. Tell him that you love him to bits, but you're young and at uni and want to experience everything that being at uni has to offer including going out, meeting and sleeping with a variety of men. And that once you've got your degree you'd love to settle down, get a job and marry and that right now he is the man you'd love to marry more than anyone else in the world.

    If he is a man worth spending the rest of your life with he will understand. Chances are he'd like to try a few different women himself before settling down too.
 
 
 
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