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    So there's this girl in my college who is honestly so beautiful that i've never felt this way about any other girl in my life , idk if she has a bf though (her friends say she does but i'm not too sure) i could go ask her but what if she says she does have a bf idk how to react because i really like her

    what should do if she does have a bf ?
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    Stalk her on facebook or whatever you kids use these days.
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    yea stalk her social media, im great at that sort of stuff I can find out for you if you want lol
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    (Original post by 8472)
    Stalk her on facebook or whatever you kids use these days.
    She dosen't reply to my messages , i know this is indicating that she might be taken but i still don't know :/
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    If she had a boyfriend, she would bring it up with in 5 sentences of you hitting on her.

    even if she does, stick with her, they make break up or something
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    (Original post by hannah00)
    If she had a boyfriend, she would bring it up with in 5 sentences of you hitting on her.

    even if she does, stick with her, they make break up or something
    hmm ok , the thing is i don't wanna be too close with her if she already has a bf cause that's quite rude
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    hmm ok , the thing is i don't wanna be too close with her if she already has a bf cause that's quite rude
    not really
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    (Original post by hannah00)
    not really
    won't it look like i'm trying to break them up though
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    what should do if she does have a bf ?
    Then you say "cool, no problem" then you move on with your life. At least you know the answer, you have nothing to lose by asking.
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    Then you say "cool, no problem" then you move on with your life. At least you know the answer, you have nothing to lose by asking.
    i did that once before with another girl and she told all her friends who then laughed at me :/
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    won't it look like i'm trying to break them up though
    dont try and break them up, just be a cool and fun guy to be around.

    Eventually they will break up and you can swoop in.

    but its risky strategy, dont get your hopes up or become too emotionally invested
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    i did that once before with another girl and she told all her friends who then laughed at me :/
    It sounds like you dodged a bullet with her then.

    What's wrong with asking someone out anyway? They are so immature.
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    dont try and break them up, just be a cool and fun guy to be around.

    Eventually they will break up and you can swoop in.

    but its risky strategy, dont get your hopes up or become too emotionally invested
    yeh i don't do much just smile at her every time we make eye contact

    and the odd compliment towards her which i think she appreciates but i'm not sure
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    It sounds like you dodged a bullet with her then.

    What's wrong with asking someone out anyway? They are so immature.
    didn't even ask her out and just said if she was single and she took it the wrong way XD
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    didn't even ask her out and just said if she was single and she took it the wrong way XD
    Oh well, it's just a question.

    I would still go for it.
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    Oh well, it's just a question.

    I would still go for it.
    i'll do it tomorrow if i get the chance
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    yeh i don't do much just smile at her every time we make eye contact

    and the odd compliment towards her which i think she appreciates but i'm not sure
    ok, in which case its best to move on. you will only be putting your self through pain.

    Believe me pretty girls are not in rare supply, youll meet another one in perhaps better circumstances.
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    ok, in which case its best to move on. you will only be putting your self through pain.

    Believe me pretty girls are not in rare supply, youll meet another one in perhaps better circumstances.
    i'll ask if she's single tomorrow , and i will use common sense , thanks
 
 
 
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