Ok so i am contemplating doing ‘it’. What questions should i ask myself to see if i am ready to do it now or wait for a later time? Thanks for your help.
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- Thread Starter
- 23-02-2018 08:03
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- 23-02-2018 08:07
Would you regret losing it to this person?
Do you really want to have sex with them?
- 23-02-2018 08:38
Depending on how old you are ... is this legal? Am I mature enough to deal with this?
Yes UWS is correct - is this the right person for me to do this with?
I believe in losing it to someone you've been in a stable relationship with for a while and whom you really love. I know not everyone is the same, but the people with the best experiences in this situation that I know are those who have been in that position.
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- 23-02-2018 09:19
Are you more bothered about the concept/idea of you having sex rather than actually wanting sex?
Do you love this person or the concept of loving/being in a relationship with this person?
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- 23-02-2018 09:28
Do you have the necessary protection - condoms, birth control etc? Is the person you want to have sex with able to consent? Are you able to consent? Do you have an STD (yes virgins can have them too)? Does the other person have one? These are just the practical things you have to think about.
- 23-02-2018 13:03
How will you stay safe - both physically and emotionally?
What does 'virginity' mean to you? Does the person you'd like to have sex with use the same definition?
What types of sex have you previously had? What types of sex would you like to have with this person?
How will you make sure both of you are enjoying yourselves?
- 23-02-2018 15:17
Is the guy worth it?
If you broke up would you regret losing it to him?
- 23-02-2018 15:27
- 23-02-2018 15:32
If you’re finding yourself questioning whether or not you want to do it, don’t do it. If you aren’t 100% sure then it’s better to wait than go through with it and possibly regret it or have a bad experience.
- 23-02-2018 15:38
Is he using you?
What are the good things that can come of this?
Will he treat me fairly during sex?
Is there anything that can go wrong during sex?
Do you feel comfortable naked with him?
Why do you want to do this?
Will he be fine with contraception?
- 23-02-2018 16:33
- Do you have a big ****?
- Are you catholic? Do you want to remain faithful to the Catholic church?
- 23-02-2018 17:49
"Do I actually want the sex regardless of my virginity status?" is basically the most important one. If you can't answer it with conviction then it's better to not do it.
- 23-02-2018 23:34
Will you have a good time?
Is his wiener big enough?
Will it be longer than 2 mins?
Find out in the next episode of Dragon Ball Z
- 23-02-2018 23:35
but for real why do these topics get "today on tsr" What's going onn
- 24-02-2018 17:03
Is it really Love? or is it Lust?
- 24-02-2018 19:31