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    Ok so i am contemplating doing ‘it’. What questions should i ask myself to see if i am ready to do it now or wait for a later time? Thanks for your help.
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    Would you regret losing it to this person?
    Do you really want to have sex with them?
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    Depending on how old you are ... is this legal? Am I mature enough to deal with this?
    Yes UWS is correct - is this the right person for me to do this with?

    I believe in losing it to someone you've been in a stable relationship with for a while and whom you really love. I know not everyone is the same, but the people with the best experiences in this situation that I know are those who have been in that position.
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    Are you more bothered about the concept/idea of you having sex rather than actually wanting sex?
    Do you love this person or the concept of loving/being in a relationship with this person?
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    Do you have the necessary protection - condoms, birth control etc? Is the person you want to have sex with able to consent? Are you able to consent? Do you have an STD (yes virgins can have them too)? Does the other person have one? These are just the practical things you have to think about.
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    How will you stay safe - both physically and emotionally?

    What does 'virginity' mean to you? Does the person you'd like to have sex with use the same definition?

    What types of sex have you previously had? What types of sex would you like to have with this person?

    How will you make sure both of you are enjoying yourselves?
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    Is the guy worth it?
    If you broke up would you regret losing it to him?
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    (Original post by yungaheartz)
    Is the guy worth it?
    If you broke up would you regret losing it to him?
    Why are you assuming the OP is planning on doing it with a guy?
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    If you’re finding yourself questioning whether or not you want to do it, don’t do it. If you aren’t 100% sure then it’s better to wait than go through with it and possibly regret it or have a bad experience.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ok so i am contemplating doing ‘it’. What questions should i ask myself to see if i am ready to do it now or wait for a later time? Thanks for your help.
    Are you gonna regret this?

    Is he using you?

    What are the good things that can come of this?

    Will he treat me fairly during sex?

    Is there anything that can go wrong during sex?

    Do you feel comfortable naked with him?

    Why do you want to do this?

    Will he be fine with contraception?
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    "Do I actually want the sex regardless of my virginity status?" is basically the most important one. If you can't answer it with conviction then it's better to not do it.
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    Will you have a good time?
    Is his wiener big enough?
    Will it be longer than 2 mins?

    Find out in the next episode of Dragon Ball Z
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    but for real why do these topics get "today on tsr" What's going onn
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    Is it really Love? or is it Lust?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ok so i am contemplating doing ‘it’. What questions should i ask myself to see if i am ready to do it now or wait for a later time? Thanks for your help.
    Do you have a moment for your Lord and Saviour?
 
 
 
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