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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I’m not asking for advice. I was simply wondering if anyone else felt the same way.
    thats not the way. i think try speak to more boys and stuff and also get involved in like more hobbies and stuff to keep your mind at peace.
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    Btw lotta thristy muslim guys lmao gg
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    Seriously tho as much as it's wrong, ignore the feelings and masturbate them off on a certain time when it won't interfere with your daily life (As you can't marry rn) Don't get into haram sex, it's harmful to you other than being a major sin.
    OR
    You could get into a sex less relationship with a good Muslim guy who waits and won't exploit you. In my experience, i maturbated extremely less when i fell in love with a Muslim girl because she made me experience pure feelings of affection for her and just made most of the lust fade. This is risky for a number of reasons though.
    i cant ignore the feelings. I even masturbate on my periods! I definitely wont get into a relationship rn. They would probably persuade me to have sex with them!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I’m not asking for advice. I was simply wondering if anyone else felt the same way.
    Obviously they do. Most muslims won't admit to masturbating though cos it goes against their religion.
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    Btw lotta thristy muslim guys lmao gg
    😂 we all need it tbh
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    It’s normal dw, many feel that way
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    There is nothing wrong with pre-martial sex....
    Good people have pre-martial sex too.......
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    i cant ignore the feelings. I even masturbate on my periods! I definitely wont get into a relationship rn. They would probably persuade me to have sex with them!
    Yeah that sounds less risky. From what it sounds like, you have a high sex drive. I too have one and initially i was quite ashamed to have it but islamically there's nothing wrong in that if it's Just the feeling we're talking about. It's good for marriage life and you mostly feel active throughout.
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    (Original post by Sanjith Hegde123)
    There is nothing wrong with pre-martial sex....
    Good people have pre-martial sex too.......
    Personally as a Muslim i don't think that people who have pre martial sex are bad at all. The reasons we don't have pre martial sex are Islamic and yes moral too but not the 'bad guy, good guy' kind.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah that sounds less risky. From what it sounds like, you have a high sex drive. I too have one and initially i was quite ashamed to have it but islamically there's nothing wrong in that if it's Just the feeling we're talking about. It's good for marriage life and you mostly feel active throughout.
    its bad because masturbation is a huge sin.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    its bad because masturbation is a huge sin.
    I dont understand why its a sin at all, just do it without watching porn. your body is telling you that you need to do it.

    You eat when you are hungry, you drink when you are thirsty, you sleep when you are tired, so masturbate when you are horny.

    problem solved!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    its bad because masturbation is a huge sin.
    not exactly, depends on your school of thought. For example Hanifi based in India and South Asia allow it on conditions:

    1. To relieve sexual tension
    2. one fears adultery or fornication
    3.under the desire pressure
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Personally as a Muslim i don't think that people who have pre martial sex are bad at all. The reasons we don't have pre martial sex are Islamic and yes moral too but not the 'bad guy, good guy' kind.
    And you believe that those Islamic reasons are more important than the fundamental belief of what is right and wrong?
    Think about what you are saying here (nothing against the religion, I know you can give me a better response).
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    😂 we all need it tbh
    No we don’t I’m a Muslim girl and have never masturbated Alhamdulillah
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    No we don’t I’m a Muslim girl and have never masturbated Alhamdulillah
    Good for you.
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    Good for you.
    Thanks. It’s all about self control. If you really care about the deen then you will try your best to resist otherwise get married as soon as possible.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Well as a muslim; having unlawful is sex is haram and the punishment can be very bad ( Its all up to ALLAH to decide and I cant say anything) but u (muslims) are not allowed to have unlawful sex until u are married to someone and by someone i mean the opposite sex
    Jeez what a bummer. I'm sure he wont care that much
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    I feel the same way too tbh sometimes i just think **** it i’ll lose my virginity before marriage but then i realise i can’t
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    its bad because masturbation is a huge sin.
    So what live let live you only live once after all. I'm sure you can make it up to the almighty later on.
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    No we don’t I’m a Muslim girl and have never masturbated Alhamdulillah
    because your not in the same shoes as her
 
 
 
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