Why am I choosing the same manipulative guy?! Watch
Is he a high level drug dealer / smuggler? Was he waiting for his contact to turn up with a suitcase stuffed full of cash so that he could hand over the drugs?
If he is that explains his behaviour. He;s been sampling his wares too much. It's addled his brain. Not that he had much of a one in the first place to get involved in that business.
If he's not a courier, what on earth was he on about? It doesn't take any money for him to spend a great evening with you. He was just coming up with a lame excuse.
It sounds like these 2 men liked you, but didn't love you enough to really push the boat out. Whether that's because of something about you, or something about them, or something about the compatibility between you and them is impossible for me to say.
It is fair to say that there are a lot of men around that are too selfish and immature to make relationships work well.
but then they ring up days later asking to meet
is it a game? or are they unsure/cant be bothered and want to keep me on the sideline
telling someone to meet and then not texing back on the day is so so rude to me and not accidental
but i dont understand the motive
the first guy i blamed him and thought maybe i was being too aloof so he played games
but its so worrying that the next recent guy is doing the same when i thought things were going well